Mother in law pain

This reminds me of the bible verse that a mother-in-law and a daughter-in-law can never go together well... She's always trying to find fault so she can say something that makes you feel bad. And I cannot see the relationship between the paint color and the digestive system . The worst sometimes, if your husband will believe the lies she's going to invent. I don't know what's the scientific explanation about this kind of relationship with in-laws. Luckily, my mother-in-law loves me the way she loves my husband and my kids. I think this is one in a million case and just lucky to be one.

hahah thats funny really your stepmother trying to run your life and tell you what to do with your own house and family i would tell her off not caring if she is my stepmother or not i don't let anyone tell me what to do with ma own life and my own family i would have slapped that female.

My mother-in-law studied under the queen-mother-in-law of crazy (whoever she was). She never got better, but I won her over. I laughed at her craziness and hugged her often. Buy some alka-seltzer and put them on the table in your dining room in plain view. When she sees them, tell her you thought about what she said and decided to take no chances. The alka-seltzer is cheaper than a can of paint. When she talks about the meat, tell her to go to http://www.peta.org/, or to view the movie "Fast Food Nation." No matter what my mother-in-law said, I had some really stupid, off-the-wall answer for her. She finally decided I was the nut case but she also had to laugh. Don't let her get under your skin. But stay firm. Let her know you are not one she can run over. It has been my experience and observation that evil mothers-in-law really want a strong daughter-in-law so they can be sure their son is taken care of. Go figure.

Mother in laws and daughter in laws, The mother raises the son and believes she knows everything that he likes in life, how when and where, Now here comes the "wife" which will put her at number 2, when she was always number 1. They are threatened that thier son will share the love that he has for her. The problem is that this is impossible. If you love your mother it is in a totally different way than you love your wife. Mother in laws have to realize this. Now wives get into a pissin contest about I am first and whatever, The son/husband has a responsibility to both his mother and his wife. Therefore it is his responsibility to explain to the two women in his life that this is the way it goes. Mom I will visit you on this day, and wife will have no say. I would suggest that it is his time with his mother. It is important for mothers to realize that the sons have a life with his family and not all the time will she be involved in decisions. Once a mother gets out of line the son should stand behind the wife, but it is also the same if the wife gets out of line with the mother. The son should be telling the mother this is what we choose as a couple and that you shuold respect and keep your trap closed. If you dont have anything nice to say you shouldnt say it all. This applies to everyone! As far as the decor of your home, that is your home she was just being very opinionated about something she read whether it is true or not who knows. Honestly I would have said this is what We have chosen as a couple. Are you crazy why would you warn him the more she is out on the date the less time she is with you.

i have the same problem with mother's in law.. hey, why does mother's in law is always a pain in the ___? i hate her because she always nag, nag and nag all day long. how i want to put gas in her mouth and burn it.. gee, sorry for that.. i just want to get out of this helly compound co'z i never want to see her face again. but there's just one problem, my husband and i don't have enough savings to look for our own house so i will still sacrifice here until we save some money to look for a house far away from my mother in law and her bad mouth.. :) happy posting!!

My mother in law is a pain as well. While we were dating (my husband and I) she was great and then we got engaged, she then turned into some stranger. She went from being extremely nice to trying to ruin the wedding. My now husband wanted his sister in the wedding, found out later that this was because he thought his mother would be upset if she wasn't in the wedding. I didn't really want her in my wedding party but agreed to it because it would make him happy (I had not met his sister at this point she lives in New York and we live in Ohio). As soon as his mother found out that the sister was in the wedding she called me and said oh you have to have this kind of dress (neck line, lenght, color and blah blah blah). I was upset but he said just pick whatever you want the party to wear. Then she called me to tell me that she was wearing a royal blue dressing to the wedding and my mom had to find something to go with her dress (I don't know about everywhere but here in the US the mother of the bride picks a dress then the groom's mother picks her dress to go with her's) I talked to my mom about it and she's like I can live with blue. Fast forward several months, she calls and wants to know about a bridal shower party, I was already very mad at her for everything but I said oh, the bridal party is suppose to do that she didn't want to hear any of that. She instisted that she give the party and if they wanted to help they could. Two weeks before the party she calls me and wants a list of who to invite, I gave her one and she is like oh you are only allowed to invite 10 people. GRRR! Why didn't she tell me that to begin with? A few days before the party she is calling my soon to be husband saying how she can't afford the party blah blah blah and so he says call the wedding party and have them help. She calls my sister and tells her that she needs this amount of money for the party (after the party I found out that my sister paid for everything and more, she told her that all the food and cake was this amount and the funny thing was my soon to be husband went and paid for all of the stuff already which she didn't pay him back for so she kept the money my sister gave her and never spent any money on the party). About 5 days before the wedding we get a call from his sister saying what color do you want mom's dress to be and he's like she is wearing the blue one that she wore to our brother's wedding. She said no she is not I am buying her a dress. So we told her what we would like to wear and the style a few minutes later, crazy MIL calls crying telling him how awful he is for making her wear a dress like that and all that sort of crap. He says if you don't like it don't go to the wedding. She still acts this way, she will call and say come over and change my light bulb, come get this item out of the box I can't lift it, her requests are never ending and very demanding. She has 2 other children but doesn't ask them for anything. She also is very nice to the spouses of the other children. She's crazy and my husband didn't realize until after we were married for a while how crazy his mother was. Final point, we actually were planning on calling off the wedding because I was under so much stress from his mother. He had no idea (or he was to afraid to upset him mom) of what she was doing to me. I am sure that there are MIL's out there that are much worse than mine. But I can honestly say that mine is worse than yours. lol

I have several things that I have decided to do just to spite my MIL...if she satys my MIL, which isn't likely at this point but that's a different story! Mine is also the type that I'm sure would comment on my paint choices...she had an odd look when she first spotted my black comforter and red pillow cases. We got past our food issues but that took several years. Ugh...it is so frustrating!

maybe that's the generation gap.If your mother were still exit,the similar things would happen to you.

My stepmother and all my inlaws do the same thing!! We are living my sister in law right now and she is driving us crazy. She tells us what to feed the kids, when to feed them, how to discipline them, when to put them to bed, how many times to bath them etc. I really haven't figured it out yet. The best I do is ignore without her knowing im ignoring. When she has a leg. thing that might work I try it. But sometimes I just have to say HEY THERE MY KIDS I GOT THIS. Good luck./