Does In Every Relationship There is Sacrifice?
By mjmlagat
@mjmlagat (3170)
Philippines
May 26, 2008 2:48am CST
What do you think of the implications of sacrifice in every relationship?
Do we need to do it for a relationship's success?
How often and how long?
4 responses
@kyrinayres (15)
• United States
27 May 08
I think sacrifice is very important in a relationship. If only one person in the relationship gets everything they want, and the other person gets ignored so-to-speak, then you're left with a very bad relationship that will end in divorce or possibly worse.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
26 May 08
There are two kinds of Sacrifice in relationship that connected to each other:
- Self sacrifice.
You surrender totally your emotional, includes heart, to the condition, and put yourself even in the utmost disadvantages of unbalanced relationship. This is heavy for a person who did this. This person will always give, but most likely less in receiving the love from the partner. Some people may be able to bear with this kind relationship, until a phase of where the emotional is overwhelmed. It takes a great patience to deal this kind until it will attach back to below type of sacrifice.
- Mutual sacrifice.
It's clear. The exchange of emotional will bath on both person in the relationship. Both sides willingly to admit the weaknesses and pour the excess to the partner. This is the holy grail that every couple had always seek for. Problem is, the environment and temptation had always come to hammer down the effort. Once one has influenced by it, the other will fall back into self-sacrifice.
@ahna09 (106)
• Philippines
26 May 08
sacrifice is really needed in a relationship..
it helps us to work things out...
how often??as needed...
how long??as long as you can...
as long as you have reasons to sacrifice,..
why not??but of course it also have its own limit...
and that limit depends on you..
if what kind of person are you...etc.