i am a loner
By megaplaza
@megaplaza (1441)
Nigeria
May 26, 2008 7:20am CST
life as a loner can be really interesting a times, just think about it when you have nobody to care about, just yourself, you have no friend that you worries about his loyalty and trust, you have no friend that envies your success, it is far more better for an enemy to envy than for a friend to envy you. Am a loner, and i will always be..
8 responses
@muralirv (572)
• India
26 May 08
i agree with u.life with no one will lead to some achievment but sometimes it may take to the core of boring.when we feel for something,if no one is beside you then it would be very bad.But as i said already ;life might go to the peak for achieving.even i like to be alone only with my parents.
@megaplaza (1441)
• Nigeria
26 May 08
thanks for ur comment, hey but even when you are bored there must be something you use to easy up, mine is logging in to mylot or playing video games
@aeiou_learning (14)
• China
26 May 08
i don't think so.it's strange idea!
i think loner is auful.there are many kind people,if you lose all friends because of few bed man,in the same time you'll lose so many pleasure.
if you have interest something,you'll find you needing partner,
if you have no interest,in your free you'll fell lone.
@megaplaza (1441)
• Nigeria
26 May 08
yeah, but being lonely makes one strong, and determine to succeed in life, most achiever are loners. most inventor does that being alone, you reason better when you associate less
@blizzard330 (40)
• United States
27 May 08
I have lived my life both ways. Now I'm in the loner phase of my life. Am I bored - no not at all. I spend alot of time online. Yes, I do miss being the center of attention but considering my circumstances, this is best for me right now. I have come to the conclusion that some of us are born to be loners. Try as we might, we lack charisma or something.
@naseeha (1382)
• India
26 May 08
hi i too was a loner i used to feel lonely even in a cloud. But i would want to mingle with them which was difficult for me . Now i am not like that i am a better conversationalist.
i dont think being a loner is good for you. i feel you would grow out of it. but you can mingle with only those whom you like and admire. anyway it is more joyous to interact with people rather than being alone. hope you agree with me ...
@cybersoft01 (1284)
• India
5 Jan 09
I have been a loner like you but I never enjoyed being lonely as you seem to be enjoying. I expressed my feelings in a lovely poem. I just thought you would like to read it. Here is the link:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1046636/loneliness.html?cat=42
@reneedeann27 (1)
• United States
5 Jan 09
living life as a loner is the only way for me.people are awful.they are spiteful and jealous.no one really cares about you, but you.and maybe - i say maybe a couple of family members.a vast majority of people are a disappointment.not very many people have much to offer. i have not always been this extreme with my thinking.i have been conditioned to have these thoughts after many different disappointing experiences with people.i feel i see people for what they really are.and that is the main reason i am this way.i just don't like what most people stand for.
@tarikhidirfirat (15)
• Philippines
26 May 08
There are many reasons why a person become a loner. For me i used to be friendly and love to mingle with friends. b ut because of lot of bad experiences that happened o me i choose to be a loner most of he time. The reason is i don't wanna be hurt anymore or being cheated. it's hard sometimes to adjust from outgoing to loner attitude. I remember before my dad says when i was everytime hanging out with friends "Not all friends are good you will only get hurt" i never listen to him but now i realize his true. That's my reason why i choose to be a loner most of the time.