Do you light a candle when you prey/ask/hope for something?

@raydene (9871)
United States
May 26, 2008 9:23am CST
I love candles but haven't ever used then spiritually have you? "Mrs. Donovan was walking down O'Connell Street in Dublin when she met up with Father Flaherty. The Father said, 'Top o' the mornin' to ye! Aren't ye Mrs. Donovan and didn't I marry ye and yer hoosband 2 years ago?' She replied, 'Aye, that ye did, Father.' The Father asked, 'And be there any wee little ones yet?' She replied, 'No, not yet, Father.' The Father said, 'Well now, I'm going to Rome next week and I'll light a candle for ye and yer hoosband.' She replied, 'Oh, thank ye, Father.' They then parted ways. Some years later they met again. The Father asked, 'Well now, Mrs. Donovan , how are ye these days?' She replied, 'Oh, very well, Father!' The Father asked, 'And tell me, have ye any wee ones yet?' She replied, 'Oh yes, Father! Three sets of twins and 4 singles, 10 in all!' The Father said, 'That's wonderful! How is yer loving hoosband doing?' She replied, 'E's gone to Rome to blow out yer candle.' "
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17 responses
@systems (459)
• India
28 May 08
I dont light candle while praying.. I am not a christian also.. I dont like to waste the candle as there are many people who need it.. many homes in the village doesnt have electricity.. it would be better if the candles are given to them instead of wasting it..
@systems (459)
• India
28 May 08
please check the spelling.. its pray and not prey.. i really dont know whether you mean pray or prey? please correct it at least next time if not now..
@ellie333 (21016)
27 May 08
LOL, yes I guess that was one candle that needed blowing out eh! I pray without the use of candles but if someone asks me to light a candle in prayer I will do that also. It all depends on the situation and circustances really. Ellie :D
• Philippines
27 May 08
I'd sometimes do that when I pray.It actually sets up my mood and I feel more concentrated.After all,that's what lighting candles is all about-fervent praying.
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
27 May 08
I only light the candles at the altar table when my mum asked me to. Other than that, I do not light candles, not even for aromatherapy. When I prey, I do it silently and sincerely with my mind.
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
27 May 08
Hi raydene! haha..That is a good one! Really funny! But does it ring any truth to it? For I shall start lighting more candles from now on when I pray. haha.. Oh but what if the lighting of candle just work in Rome? haha.. Take Care and God Bless! Celebrate Life!
• India
27 May 08
i've been to church loads of time even though im not a catholic...but whenever i go i do light a candle...call it supestition or watever,it gives me a feeling of peace and calm
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
27 May 08
LOL thats funny!! and to answer your question...I dont pray BUT I do use candles when meditating and doing other spiritual things that could be considered my version of praying as it applies to my personal path if that makes sense....
• United States
27 May 08
I have and I prefer to use candles for spiritual reasons. They're relaxing and really help me focus on what I need or want to work on or accomplish for myself and others. I don't feel that candles need to be specific for any religion though, I feel anyone can use them.
@mummymo (23706)
26 May 08
ROFL I wouldn't have blamed him - I would have blown out the candle long before I got to 10! lol I have lit candles before Mom but not too often - I only usually burn them for a lost loved one and say a prayer after I have lit it! xxx
@newtondak (3946)
• United States
26 May 08
It's not something that we do other than lighting Advent candles in the Christmas season. It might,however, be a good thing for a lot of us to do, to help us take the time to pray and reflect.
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
27 May 08
I love candles and light them for those in need and my family..maybe thats why i have alot of children too..LOL..that was funny Raydene
• United States
26 May 08
I keep a ST.JUDE candle burning quite often. I feel a sense of security with them, especially with prayers.
@LaHire (164)
• India
26 May 08
don't mind asking.... but what is the significance of lighting a candle :O
• United States
27 May 08
That's a very funny story! :) I once lit a candle in Notre Dame Cathedral in Paris. It was a very moving experience for me, I was about twenty years old. I don't usually light candles when I pray but I think it is a beautiful ceremony or ritual to do so. :)
@selby70 (283)
26 May 08
I love going in church when it is empty and then I lite a candle and sit and pray by myself it is so peaceful.
@judy43 (299)
• United States
26 May 08
No I don't light candles when praying. I just get by myself and pray for my needs.
@poshboy (312)
• Indonesia
26 May 08
I do it once a year, on Christmas :) My church always do it on Christmas ceremony, they turn off the light and light on candles. The congregation also light on the candles and sing the Silent Night song, u must take a look at the view, it's very beautiful :) than we pray with the candles still light on.