Weird Situation - What would you do?
By tipsyflash
@tipsyflash (581)
United States
May 27, 2008 12:45am CST
My husband's friend, let's call him James, was dating a girl we'll call Sara.
Anyway, James and Sara had a relationship going. James felt that it wasn't working out at times but really loved Sara and waited for years for it to work out. Then one day Sara left her myspace open on her computer when she left James alone in her room. James looked through her messages and saw that Sara was cheating on him. He broke up with Sara.
Sara kept calling him for months saying she was sorry and blah blah blah. Then Sara developed a stress related heart problem and had to get a pacemaker.
Anyway, since Sara is my husband's cousin and we were over at my husband's mom's house I was like, "Hey, I heard about Sara getting a pacemaker, I hope she starts feeling better."
My husband's mom replied, "Yeah, James mom won't stop calling/emailing Sara. She says that they should get back together, but Sara doesn't want to... she just doesn't have anything in common with James anymore. James's mom is causing a LOT of stress for Sara."
I know Sara is lying to her mom about why they broke up (who is telling my husband's mom about this.) James's mom definitely is not involved in this and this isn't stress related because of that.
What would you do in this situation?
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4 responses
@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
27 May 08
I third the motion.:) Yeah, it already happened. They should be concentrating on making Sara feel well due to what happened to her. I'm not sure if it will work but if someone could tell Sara to tell the truth herself. She might feel relieved about it and the misunderstanding would stop. Everybody can move on.
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@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
27 May 08
like cjgrooms said i will stay out of it. sara made a lot of stress and there is no one to be blamed here but her. she was the one cheating and thats the price she has to pay. maybe now she realizes that james is the perfect man for her but.... too late to apologize. the damage is done.
@mannu_2985 (18)
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6 Jun 08
i think u sara should firdt of all tell the truth and then everything will be OK