do you believe in love at first sight
By hotranger
@hotranger (446)
India
May 27, 2008 3:05am CST
love is the word we all know from the childhood days and it is something that an animal can also understand. love is a feeling which is can not be defined in words and everyone of us is related to it. but do you really believe in love at first sight or its just a infatuation which is wrongly taken as love. because love is divine . what is your opinion for love
13 responses
@scorpiobabes (7225)
• United States
28 May 08
Well, the first time I laid eyes on my boyfriend, I felt like I was kicked in the chest...and now I've fallen head over heels for him! 
And I'm definitely an adult! I wasn't sure what love was at first--I had never felt that way about anyone before (not my husband, not even my former fiance!), but I realize it now. 
And I'm definitely an adult! I wasn't sure what love was at first--I had never felt that way about anyone before (not my husband, not even my former fiance!), but I realize it now. 1 person likes this
@scorpiobabes (7225)
• United States
28 May 08
I felt like wow, this is THE guy...and all he did was say goodbye to me that day! 
He's definitely not the talk, dark and handsome type that one would expect, but I felt an instant kinship. The others were nothing in comparison. 
He's definitely not the talk, dark and handsome type that one would expect, but I felt an instant kinship. The others were nothing in comparison. @scorpiobabes (7225)
• United States
28 May 08
And I forgot to add--we've known each other nearly 9 years, and been together over 4 1/2...so I'm pretty sure that I know that this was love at first sight!
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@hotranger (446)
• India
28 May 08
may be this time you have got into a relationship that will last longer, and you have discovered true love for you. i don't know what to call that one . i cnh't say it was love at first sight but now it is love
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@lindaway224 (91)
• China
27 May 08
Fall in love with each other at first sight.
I believe this. Magic!
It is a pity that this kind thing has never happened to me.
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@hotranger (446)
• India
28 May 08
Sure some day you will be lucky to have that. I am not that will be love at first sight but love will come to you some day.
@skygal (146)
• Malaysia
28 May 08
I do not believe in love at first sight. It might lead you to get to know the person more if you are attracted to the person and maybe develop into love when you get to know the person more but it won't be love at first sight. You can call it a crush or infatuation.
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@hotranger (446)
• India
28 May 08
you are very correct indeed. it is infatuation or crush that is wrongly termed as love. that makes the way for further meetings and taht might get turned into love. very true. all the best
@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
29 May 08
my opinion is that you must know someone to love them. Otherwise it's only a phyical attraction. Except in the case of my grand children . That was love at first site.
@hotranger (446)
• India
30 May 08
that is the common opinion.in most of the cases it is just physical attar action. i don't think that it will be pure love in the first sight. how can someone love when he/she don't know anything about the stranger.
@hotranger (446)
• India
28 May 08
yeah sure that is what happening in real. it is infatuation which develops into love in the due course of time. and people say it love at first sight.
@moudy242 (71)
• Egypt
27 May 08
Yes i believe its true and it did happen to me
the problem is that its probably the worst way because it doesn't grow slowly and since the beginning i made every mistake in the book which ultimately caused the whole thing to fail..u become nervous and act in a different way and since the other person doesn't know the real u he/she don't really know the good qualitites u actually have
@hotranger (446)
• India
28 May 08
yeah that is true for all the love at first sight cases. most of the time it ends abruptly. hope that next time you will get true love and that will last longer
@WebMann (4731)
• Canada
27 May 08
I don't really believe in love at first site but it's a nice idea.
I think people meet or see each other for the first time and there is an attraction but I don't think that can be called love. It may be more like lust perhaps.
It rocks when it works out though. I love to see happy endings.
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@hotranger (446)
• India
28 May 08
nice thinking, neither i do. attradtion is there at first sight but that cannot be called love. love is something which cannot develop at first sight. it takes time. i think there is very little example of love at first sight. most of them had sad endings
@hotranger (446)
• India
28 May 08
And that is a intelligent move to make. Nothing is better than this . First look never gives you the real innerself of a person. And to know a person in a better way one should as many times as possible.
@jannijanni (866)
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27 May 08
love for me is bittersweet...and i don't actually believe in love at first sight...
i usually take a second look :D
have a great day!
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@hotranger (446)
• India
28 May 08
First sight gives you only outer look which only creates interest but for love people should have equal wavelength of thinking..this necessitates the second look.
@lynnlwn308033129 (116)
• China
27 May 08
I am sure there is love at first sight existing in the world. But it never happens on me.LOL
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@hotranger (446)
• India
28 May 08
I am not so sure about it but i am also waiting for something to happen like this to me. But i think i am not lucky that much . Any way good luck to you and you may find love at first sight. All the best.
@maquisa (316)
• Philippines
27 May 08
love at first sight probable yes...its just crazy to think that you had been inlove to the person you just meet,but sometimes first impression last and that's what happen between me and my bf now...we just meet in a party hahahha...cheers!
@hotranger (446)
• India
28 May 08
yeah but that is rare . its good that you found your love at a party. but i feel that was a beggining and an attaraction was there. but it may lead to several other meetings which may be later on turned to love.
@sxrxnrr45601 (1171)
• United States
29 May 08
I used to believe in love at first sight but now a days I am not even sure I believe in love and I shock myself saying this but it is how I feel maybe its just the situation iam in that makes me think that I just dodnt know any more though maybe its just me!
@hotranger (446)
• India
29 May 08
i am sure your experience with love was not good in the past. we believe what we had seen, experienced. i am sorry for that. good luck
@hotranger (446)
• India
28 May 08
love at first sight is an emotional condition whereby a person feels romantic attraction for a stanger on the first encounter with a strnager. but i feel its a mere s-exual attraction or crush . since it is only for intimate relationship , so it is not love but lust
