What attitude do you have? pessimistic or optimistic?

Good that your neutral and your practical in dealing things. Your not emotionally driven in terms of decision making to things that needs decision. At least in practicality, for example you are to choose a person your going to married and it takes decision whether to select the one you really love but that person or the one you don't love but can make you happy. Of course to me i would chose the one that can make my family happy rather than the one that i loved but could not make me happy. hehehe anyway just making sample. Take care and God bless!

So your type of a person who wanted to be sure with your decision leading to sure direction.And i hope you magnify all the positive aspects and filter out all of the negative ones in your decision making. Have a nice day!

I also overstressed over thinking negatively over a situation especially problems that comes my way. I thought everything hard to overcome even those minor problems tends to become major because of my pessimism. That's why I am discovering ways how to overcome this weaknesses of mine And with the help from Above, i know i will be lead into optimism. Thanks for sharing. Take care!

We sometimes gone into over feed with trials that sometimes turned us to be pessimistic. We very fast react negatively. I agree with you because i also like that i dont care anymore when things looks so imposible to settle. But, I thank the Lord, that i can lay all kinds of burdens within me. That hope always make me smiles too.. Have nice day to you!

Optimism can be learned as like other internpersonal skills. You may begin by writing your setbacks ans practicing aguing with your less optimistic thoughts until a more realistic vision of what has happend and waht is likely to haapen in the future wmerges. Good day!

Thanks for the advice! I'll try to learn how to be optimistic someday. I hope i can. I don't want to live my life like this. Always negative. Always let down. Thanks(^^,)

Hehehe.. yes why not make "Be Optimistic" a preference instead of 'crying out milk'. Milk is getting expensive now a days and better save it. What we need to spilt out is our negative attitude. happy myloting!

Wow, congratulation's that you reached your being together as husband and wife to 20 years. Optimism and pessimism really can affect how well you live and even how long you live. With the relationship you had with you husband, good that you have opposite attitude. You looks situations(maybe problems, trials and etc..) as "minor" but your husband looks it as "major". With this take always a refresher course on your positive thinking. Always put into actions all your positive thinking. Don't be poisoned by his negative emotion but rather poisoned him with your positive attitude. By this you reduced his stress, improve his sense of we'll being and even improve his health. When something bad occurs, don't blame yourself or any of you but rather help each one. You are the positive thinker and i think you are in the potential position to restore your relation happiness. Take care and God bless to both of you!

Char lang! Love you too wendysang!

thanks te, Anyway you have rippled your positive attitude to us already that blessed us much.. Continue to be a blessing! God Bless and take care always.. Love you.. ehemm!

How you thinks or see life affects how you live,.So live healthy by thinking optimistically. Good Day!

Thanks to you Mae. Your word gives encouragement to me. Am a type of person that turns loneliness into more lonely. Yours is opposite, you turn your loneliness to happiness. I learned that in doing something helpful to make you stand from being down is essential than that dwelling on things negatively. I too got my first broke up during my high school and that i thought i can no longer find a replacement for him. For now, I may not having boyfriend but i enjoy having many friends and enjoy serving my dear families. Thanks for sharing. Take care always!

when i burned out a lot, I have the tendency of becoming more pessimistic with my action. to the point my others would noticed it. When am overdosed to it, I just keep myself rested in bed that i may have no damage on my friends behalf. I love them and I don't want them see me angry with them. Thanks to you and take care!

when a lot of people do you wrong it takes time to process it and get back into being human and having an objective view on things and giving people the benefit of the doubt. you take care as well.