found out that my best mate has been cheated on by his wife?! should i tell him?

May 27, 2008 11:56am CST
went out with a couple of mates from work on friday night and saw my best mate tim's wife getting rather cosy with another bloke. she didn't see me but i feel i should tell him, on the other hand he might react in the wrong way and it'll ruin our relationship! any advice? much appreciated. callum
2 responses
saverio
@saverio (402)
• India
27 May 08
dude if you want to really be sure then find out more about what's going on between your mate's wife and the bloke.Try to come up with some concrete proof.If you cant tell face to face just contact him anonymously....!!!
callyrob
@callyrob (24)
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27 May 08
thanks for your advice
ersmommy1
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
27 May 08
That is a tricky question. And it should be handled with care. This can go either way. If he finds out you know and didn't tell him, it could back fire as well. I would want to know if I was him. I mean wouldn't you? Maybe you could just mention a hypothetical situation. It may give you a feeler for how he would react. THen come out with it. Sorry you are in this position.
callyrob
@callyrob (24)
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27 May 08
thanks for your honest answer