I Need Some Love.........

I have missed this one Sparky. If it's who I think it is, then I had no idea and I was just taking to her at the weekend. I agree that we should all show more love though. As to good deeds. I don't know. I don't think like that at all. I have probably never done one that I have had to actually think "that's my good deed for today. So now I can sit back with an easy conscience". I try to live my life without hurting or upsetting others. Is that good enough, or should I do more?

for a friend? i haven't done one today yet. but yesterday, i gave one of my close friends a little trinket box which she wished to have when we went malling a couple of days ago. i bought it and she had no idea that i'm gonna give it to her.. and i personalized it by attaching our photo together taken during her sister's wedding. i also added another extra photo with a letter at the back. she really wasn't expecting to find a package in her bed last night. she told me the next morning that she was teary-eyed when she opened my gift. it was her first time ever to receive a surprise! she told me that of all the people she gave surprise gifts to, i was the only one who reciprocated. she never expects to get something in return but she was very very happy that finally she experienced what's it like to receive one. i'm glad that i was able to make her happy too. :)

Sparky, pass on to her that we do miss her and we are pray for her family members she is taking care of and that we are praying for God to give her peace and strength to do this,which He will. I hope every day that my love shows to others in some way. I really try to encourage others and be support to them. God bless you.

Well said spark and I think that anyone trying to get this post deleted would be a very sad and bitter individual! Cats knows she has my prayers and love with her as she struggles to cope with everything that is being thrown at her just now! As for a good deed , well I am ashamed to say I really can't remember - I DO try to help people around me in any way I can but I can't remember the last time I managed to do something practical! xxx

I have my good deeds for the month. Last month it was calling a tow truck for a lady after I couldn't get her car started by jumping her cars battery. This month it was reaching the Sara Lee strawberry cheesecake ice cream on the top shelf of the cooler, for two little old ladies in their 80's at the grocery store. I limit my good deeds since I still haven't recovered from the burn I received paying a bill for a couple of friends of mine. So now all my good deeds don't include money changing hands.

meh.. i dont keep track of "good deeds" somehow it make them feel a little muddled to keep score. so i just go about my day and my life being the wonderful enigmatic person i always am, and thats good nuff for me

I didn't do a good deed today, but I did take my Aunt some food to her house, holiday weekend, she is legally blind, And she is 96 years old, she still has her health thank God for that.Just ell you friend I hope she can come back so to chat this us. And I hope all is well for her and her family!

I have just written to her today and she knows that I am here for her and that I will wait for her to come back, she also knows that she will be receiving some help from me as her need is high I just wish that things would settle for her I really do and she is in my thoughts every Day She has my Love and Hugs

Does feeding my Cat and Dog count as a good deed? No pun intended by the way. Gosh I was unaware that she was having that much trouble... When you talk to her again please tell her that my thoughts and prayers go out to her. I sure understand her plight right now.

Spark, thank you for starting this discussion, for being the first one to offer love and support and for getting others around to offer the same. I don't know your friend but all humans are like a single family, so I really don't need to know her for offering my prayers. I only do my duties and responsibilities as a human and member of a global family. Your friend will be in my thoughts.

I went to the store to pick up some items and medicines for my mom. Then, I got my husband his favorite snack at (where else?) Dunkin Donut and brought it home to him, while he was working. Do those count as good deeds? I hope so. Take care, sparkofinsanity. PearlGrace

That is very sweet of you Spark! You are such a good friend and I am sure that you have been an enormous comfort to her. And, please send her my regards. As for my last good deed for the day...it sort of happened unknowingly. My neighbor's Aunt whom she was as close to as a sister would be, passed away unexpectedly 2 weeks ago. This weekend, I needed my roots touched up so, I asked my neighbor to help me. That, and I asked if she would attend a concert with me and she said yes, if we can get tickets. Well, we joked around and reminisced about our favorite bands of our youth and just had a good time chatting. Then, the hubby came home and we all hung out and joked around even more. Well, throughout the evening, we all managed to laugh ourselves to tears and, before we knew it, it was nearly 3 AM! I know! Shew! But, as she got ready to head back home, she thanked the hubby and I because that was the first time she had laughed in 2 weeks. We made her feel better and we weren't even trying! Can you imagine if we actually tried to cheer her up? LOL! So, I guess that is sort of my last good deed. And, it made me feel good because she is a good friend of mine and it pains me to see her down.

spark as usual you are so right and I hope our mylot friend will soon have some better times. we all miss her so much. I would never report you,you are one very kind soul. what was my last good deed of the day? I messaged to some of my friends how helpful they had been giving me really good leads on info for my shingles and I have really appreciated all the help; I do feel much bettertoday too.Mylot is just so great.

Well my good deed was nothing like yours..you are just too special to think of your friends like you do! My good deed is giving a friend a job at my store since he needed one and watched my grandbabies while my daughter was at work. Huggs and special wishes

That's a nice gesture sparky, passing on the message. Even though she isn't on my friends list I have read a few of her latest discussions and hope that things get better for her and her family. As for my last deed, I babysat my husbands friends girls for the whole of Memorial Weekend, so she could have a break. She just had a baby boy 2-3 weeks ago and was exhausted. It was the least i could do but boy was I tired come Tuesday LOL it was fun though.

I think I know who your talking about- send her my hugs and love! My last good deed (if you can call it that)- I took my drunk azz friend home after a very long night. But that is the extent of my good deeds recently.

I think it's very cool of you to pass along the message you were given. I'm sure the giver is most appreciative. I haven't done a good deed yet today - I haven't even left the house yet, but yesterday I was at the doctor's and the phlebotomist actually gave me her umbrella to use. Her own umbrella, which she was most likely going to need herself later. But I needed one right then, as it was storming and a tornado even touched down very briefly a few miles away. I had no idea that was happening while I was still in the office though, I just knew it was raining. I was pretty blown away by the gesture. It seemed enormously generous. She even told me it didn't matter if I brought it back. I assured her I would and I have an appointment to go back in 2 weeks and told her I'd bring it back then. She sort of waved it off. Anyway, she had admired the lipstick I was wearing, saying that she always looks for that color and can never find it. I told her what it was, and what brand. What I plan to to is this: when I go back for my appointment, I'm going to bring her one of those lipsticks to say thank you for being so sweet. Funny, we share the same first name too. So there's a good deed that's happened and one in return that's going to happen. And- I bought the wrong ticket for the train yesterday too, so I ended up buying another one, the right one this time. I gave the other one to someone standing on the platform. That was a pretty good deed - I gave a guy a free ride. I do a lot of good deeds though, Spark. It's just one of the things we're supposed to do. It's the right way to live. It's my way and as far as I'm concerned, the only way. Accept the good, baby, and then pass it on!

I said a couple of prayers for some mylotters who had some problems. I also fixed my wife's internet connection before I left for work this morning so she would not have to be with out the internet all day.

What a kind thing for you to do. I don't know this woman, but my goodness is she going through some stuff. I just said a prayer for her and her family. As for me... I haven't done any kindnesses today yet. I guess I'd better get to it. It is noon here after all. Thanks for the push.

Hey I am very sorry to hear of your friends situation helping my father by bringing his drink down as he also is not the best and has cancer.