why women cheat on their husbands? do you blame them?

Her marriage is over. Get out and be a separated woman an decently go afetr men then. And stop giving decent married women a bad name. You are just a cheating tart!!!! Get your "needs" when you are a free woman!

Why do you believe her? What makes you think she's not getting at least a few special needs met by him and maybe a few other buds? You must really be a stud if all she wants you for is a "benefit". Tell me your special talents. I've circled a few blocks a few times so I know benefits can be great. I also know a dangerous place to meet a married person is in the home they share with their spouse. Intuition could lead him home early even cause him to call in sick. If she hasn't let him touch her in 2 years, why wouldn't he be suspicious. I know I would.

if she wants to cheat on her husband, why is she still married to him. why doesnt she just get a divorce and move on with her life...with other men. i think this woman is stupid..either she should be loyal to her husband or get a divorce and go with other men. tell her to make up her mind who she wants...

I'm not married yet but this discussion catch my interest since i have a friend that does the same. Her husband work offshore, he'll be away from home for about 4 months and will have holiday for two months. The problem is, her husband is just as what you describe.. he will go out with friends, get back late at night, drunk.. Maybe her husband lost interest in intimate relationship, or something is wrong with him.. Ladies who cheat on their husband shouldn't be blame alone.. But the fact is it is still wrong... Maybe the best way to avoid this is by having an honest conversation with their husband.. Hope this won't happen to me...LOL

I think this ladies should not be blammed but they can give divorce to their husband.What is the use of this type of husband?I think divorce is the better option because in public's eye or according to law they are cheating their husband.

it just the same from why men cheat to their wives...will i think the problem is depend upon how you treat and respect and being honest to your partner but most of all respect...coz for me if i love my guy i take care of him with my love, caress, especially if he get sick and respect him, if theres probs never nag coz probs can be solved in talking softy and quitly, then give and take but in my part like to give my guy everything what makes him happy....so in what im doing to him, do you think my guy will cheat me..if he still do cheat, will its nah my lost.....

Yes, there is something wrong with this. The women that do that have no morals it would seem and don't really care for their husbands. You being the "other man" are just about as bad. You should control yourself. If the women can't get what they want then they should leave instead of being low life cheaters. By the way I want to say two things. One, this also goes for men who cheat. Theya re just as bad. I just don't want people to think I have a double standard here. Two, if it doesn't show I have been cheated on. So I might be a little one sided here.

The only thing that the lady is doing wrong is trying to have it both ways. She needs to GET OUT OF THAT MARRIAGE if she is not happy. If she stays in that marriage she is cheating, if she gets out of that marriage and continues to do what she does, she is NOT cheating. I don't blame her for needing what she needs, but I do blame her for staying in that marriage, thus CHEATING on her husband. Same goes for a man who cheats on his wife.

Yes she is being unfaithful to her husband even though he may be a jerk. better to divorce the fool and marry someone else than to sneak aroundlike that. of course humans have needs but do it it morally and righteous not sneaking around.

I think men and women both cheat. But if woman cheats, it is some kinda unacceptable for me. I am not trying to cleanse myself or something. I guess it's better for us to get separated, once she tries to cheat...

I think yes, she is doing something wrong. If she's not getting what she needs from her husband, be it mental or physical, they should at least try to work it out. Failing that, I do not believe in just going and having an intimate relationship with another person while still being married. If it's to the point where her husband is not longer providing the things that she feels she needs, then they should be divorced, not cheating.

I won't blame her.She has the right to do that.Maybe she doesn't love her husband now.I can understand her.And i also think they are very pitiful,aren't they?They must live together,but there isn't happiness in their live.I agree with the friend who think they should get divorce.yes,i also think that is the only method to sloving the problem.

I believe there is no excuse for cheating on your husband whatsoever. I believe there is always a time that you can sit with your significant other and tell them you are not satisfied at all and let them know you're not happy. Try and spice things up instead of cheating switch things up. Do different things. And its not just women that cheat on their man because they are not satisfying them it is also women and men are sometimes just not satisfied with one woman as well as women. Me personally am a one woman man as well. I would never go out and cheat on my husband no matter how unhappy or unsatisfied I am. I would sit and talk to him first.

Hello, Danny. Thanks for the add.:-) I don't condemn women cheating on their husbands but I believe it is wrong. It is better to get your special needs satiated in a guilt free way. If the husband couldn't provide for it, and that's what important then, divorce the husband.

Well I am just curios that she is still with her husband despite the fact that there is no intimacy in their marriage. I guess there's something that stopping her from ending it. I truly think that there is something wrong as she is plainly cheating on her husband. If she really wants to get something out of marriage I suggest go out of it first and look for something that will make her happy. I ask you too if that lady of yours you are having a relationship with tries to leave her husband would you gladly welcome her to be your partner at least.