when you are to make a choice ,what are you doing ?
By xiaoxiaoting
@xiaoxiaoting (10)
China
May 28, 2008 9:58am CST
In our daily life ,every one have to be faced with the choices that you have to make from.what are you doing as you are to make a decision that is difficult for yourself?
Now l have to face the same question ,but l begin to hate myself because of my hesitation.
Maybe l should leave the question to the time ,but not making a dicision ,in some sense .is a decision.
2 responses
@heartsoul (311)
• China
28 May 08
When making decision, I usually analyse the objective factors, the advantages and disadvantages of taking the decision. If the former goes beyond the latter, you may consider to make that decision. But that isn't always the case. Sometimes you should take the whole situation. Or sometimes when you get confused, you can ask your bosom friends to provide some advice.It is often said that the onlookers sees most clearly. But I think the final determination is in your mind. So you should learn to be decisive and rational. Maybe time and experience help you in the future! Believe in yourself!
@armandojapitana (391)
• Philippines
28 May 08
First think of the positive and negative effect of your decisions, the if the positive efeect is greater than negative i go for it. If both are equal or I can not tell the + or - effect, I pray for a sign from above...