Still a lesbian even if you love a transgendered person?

If she is living as a woman and you feel like you are with another woman when you are with her then I think you should still call yourself a lesbian. The fact of the matter is if you've been with her this long, it really doesnt matter what you call it as long as you love each other and you make each other happy, thats all that really matters. Yours Truly, Tianna

Well, answering this question is just a bit strange as Kierstal and her partner are my house mates, who also work for me. But it was too good of a question for me to pass up, although I'm typing my answer independently instead of dictating it as I usually do do to avoid them feeling uncomfortable by maybe hearing what I might say. Now to answer the question that was asked. I think your identity is you own business and must be designed by you. No one has a right to tell you whether you are or are not a lesbian. That entirely up to you. Everyone wants to define you, in whatever way they think is appropriate (which is in my opinion not at all), stand up for yourself and claim who you choose to be for yourself as defined by yourself, and not anyone else.

I'd just go with whatever label you are comfortable with. It's your choice if you want to use the label bi or lesbian. Maybe eventually there will be a new word for that relationship with all the labels people seem to come up with, but I think it's a personal decision on what you want to call it. Personally, I'd go with the label lesbian. Partly because I think it would be offensive to call myself bi if I was with someone who was psychologically a female. It would be like you're still calling them a man.

Well, I don't put much stock in labels, but you in this case I think either would be appropriate. Besides, with tgs it's what's on the inside that counts, just ask her. If a straight woman dated one woman would that make her a lesbian? Labels are either things we put on ourselves because we like them or things others put on people because all they see is the stereotype.

i am femal i lokd man and women. hehe this is a difficult topic. i am probably bi,but i consider myself a besbian because i am mostly only attracted to women not am i.

hey sis you and zyn are ment to be together 7 long years my god that is a long relationship. zyn is a female and i see it inside. your still a lesbian in my eyes even if your with a transgendered. please don't think differently. *hugs* i miss you both and i am so proud of you both.

hmm,this is a tough one. i dont date transgender females/males maybe if i didnt know that "she" was,id probly date her if i was attracted to her. but if she looks like a female,had the body parts of a female,i dont think that makes you bi. thats just my opnion though. as long as your happy ma,you good.