What if your inlove with your bestfriends?

it can happen. wait and see iof he has got the same feelings. when you are in proximity, you can sense that. then tell him and see how he reacts.

This is really hard. I once started having feelings for my guy best friends whilst I was dating his guy best friend. But he seemed to like me too, and started flirting. And no matter how wrong I thought it, I couldn't help but flirt back. In the end we were out together an d we kissed and although that was the start of the most amazing relationship ever, I have never forgiven myself for doing that to my boyfriend, even though he has forgiven the two of us and he is stil our best friend. Although this is after quite a lot of verbal abuse from him and a month of hatred.

i know exactly how it feels. ive been in love with my best friend. it didn't work for me. i know he love me too. but what went out was totally regretful as i may say. we met at the church and became best of friends. we've been like that for 3 years. as we grow maturely we felt different then. we know its not really simple. but i rather not talk about it. instead i pretended to be the best friend he used to have before and nothing has been changed. i feared that we'll lost our friendship. after confirming my feelings i went to hide from him then. trying to escape it. when i got to see him or bump to each other, i used to give him the same smile pretending nothing really happened. i know being too busy is not an enough excuse and i know he knows it already. until now we never had the talk about it. i heard he got his girlfriend now. anyway, i got mine too. and though things are better now. i still wonder what could have been for us if i was brave enough to tell him i love him too. if you happen to feel like it now, i wish you better decision than mine. you'll never know it may turn out differently, maybe better than mine.

It's very difficult situation and very hard to find the right words. Where is a chance that you will find a lover and not loose your friend. In my case I decided to hide my feelings deep inside cause I didn't want to loose my best friend whom I can rely on.

Its difficult. difficult to explain and difficult for both of us. some times it will place to love. and if its not place to love then the situation is crucial. the relation goes to break up. the end of friendship, the best friendship. if it will happen in my situation, I'll never never say the word of my mind. just carry on the relation "friendship". its better not lose a friend than gaining a lover.