Divorced. What now? Better or worse?

i see my uncle .. its very bad to get divorced it s almost rips your heart in two and you are never the same person again!

I've been divorced for a year now and I've never been happier. Of course, we were separated for seven and a half years before the divorce finally went through. He refused to sign the papers. I have a boyfriend now and he is fantastic. Life has never been better. This is, of course, speaking from the point of view of an "abused" wife. My ex-husband was definitely not the best choice. He's been in jail once since our divorce for beating up his current girlfriend. Nope, don't miss him at all!

When my marriage ended I felt as if my life was over and I had no future. How wrong I was. Since then I have had other good relationships. I have had a career. I have bought and sold my own apartment. I have done many things I would not have had the opportunity to do if I had remained married. Most of all I am happy to be single and living on my own. I kept in contact with my ex-husband. We still send each other a birthday card every year. Any bitterness and regrets I had about the marriage have long since disappeared and I can still look back on the good times we had together.

i am not divorce!but if it will happen to me maybe i will stay as a single but of course i will have a boyfriend.