What is Your Take on this Relationship point of view?

By Nic
@academic2 (7000)
Uganda
May 29, 2008 9:28am CST
To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and don’t try to understand her at all- I tend to agree with this assertions, what is your take?
3 responses
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
29 May 08
I don't think so relationship will work with that given condition. It takes two to give and take in order the relationship to grow and last longer!
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
29 May 08
My experience am affraid, has shown that it os more complicated than that
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
29 May 08
I agree with them a little also LOL. I do love my husband but I will never understand alot of what he does. He does not understand me either and does not even try to. I know he loves me but he has a hard time even talking to me about anything at all. He has always been like that. I like to share my most important things with him though but he never wants to hear it. I listen every time he speaks though, even if it is nonsense, which is the case most of the time, LOL.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
29 May 08
I try to give all the love there is in the world to my wife but like you say, I dont even try to understand her, doing so would probably send me crazy! LOL Thanks alot for your response, you deserve my BR
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
I beg to disagree... In a relationship its a mutual love and understanding.. Nobody must do this and the other will do the other way around... For a strong relationship, you must love each other and understand each other as well... And also always keep God in between and trust each other in every way you can...