Dead Beat Dads
By sntrgbsn2
@sntrgbsn2 (32)
United States
May 29, 2008 12:11pm CST
I am a mom of three and two of my kids have the same dad and he is so sorry!! He don't pay any child support unless he want to and he never buy them anything and the worst part of this is he is never postive to the kids. One of the boys play sport and he is not so good at it but when the game is over I never tell him that he sucks but if his dad just so happen to come to a game he will tell him that he sucks and that he needs to find something else to do with his time. I think that he is a bad example for a parent. When I ask him for child support he tell me when he pays all his others bills and if he has some left over for me then he will give me what he has, but if cousre there is never nothing left for the kids. He thinks that I had them all by myself and that I should take care of them myself. I have put him on child support but he said that he will go to jail before he let a white man tell him he has to pay. But he say that he is not a deadbeat dad. What is a girl to do???? I have been through this so long that I am about to lose my mind.
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3 responses
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
30 May 08
Putting him to jail will not be the answer. He has make up his mind not to look after the children. Sometimes we as women put ourselves in situation and after we said if we did know.
Darling do the best you can with your children. Yes sometimes it is best to let the child know that he/she is not very good at something. What you can do is help him practice. You have been to his games and see his weakness. Tape one of his games and show him what he is doing wrong. When he sees that you are showing interest then he will begins to work at his weakness.
Everyone has a weakness, but it is how you work at it, then you will become successful. Remember Einstein, all of these scientist try and try before they becomes the success they are.
Children remembers everything, they are also revengeful. If he wants to lose out on his children lives then it is his choice. Just do the best you can do.
@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
29 May 08
Well then let him go to jail then you won't have to deal with his negitivity!
Go and apply for welfare they will start the paper work for child support. Then if he doesn't pay they will pick his sorry self up and put him in jail. Thats were he belongs!
This is a sore subject for me.
You are wrong for not going to court and getting your rightful child support and he is wrong for not stepping up and just giving you money.
You shouldn't have to do it all on your own so step up and take action!
