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May 29, 2008 5:28pm CST
Hi :) My question to all beautiful here. what is the definiton of a good lover?
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Sheribabe
@Sheribabe (445)
• United States
29 May 08
A good lover is someone who cares about the other persons needs as well as their own. When it comes down to it, that's it. If that person is selfish, it has nothing to do with love. It's a give and take thing. You should "love" making that other person happy. They should "love" making you happy as well.
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Mirenia
@Mirenia (199)
• United States
29 May 08
You took the words right out of my mouth!! If you dont care about each others needs then the relationship is bound to fail in the end. Respect, compassion, and thoughtfulness are some keys to being a good lover!
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sanket111
@sanket111 (96)
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5 Jun 08
hmmm to great extent its a truth,but need to change the nature in some situations,overall very good comment,i must appreciate
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cjgrooms
@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
29 May 08
A good lover puts your pleasure first and always makes you feel beautiful and wanted. In turn you put their pleasure first, make them feel wanted and like the best man in the world. In the end you both win and enjoy being with each other.
sanket111
@sanket111 (96)
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5 Jun 08
yeah its all about a feel good concept :)
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naseeha
@naseeha (1382)
• India
29 May 08
This might seem a bit tooo much. But a good lover is one who senses your needs even before you begin to identify it. LOL gREAT expectations HUH?!!!
shamaj
@shamaj (13)
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5 Jun 08
It would be more appropriate when you had framed it as 'good love'. A genuine good love is without expectations and accepting you as such and always loves you from the bottom of the heart.