How would u choose
By sturner03
@sturner03 (326)
United States
May 29, 2008 10:39pm CST
I know somone very close to me that go pregnant. She was into alot of drugs and very confused mixed up young person. I'm not sure she knows who the father is. She was living with her parents the whole time she was pregnant. They basically brainwashed her into believing that she couldn't do it, (take care of a baby) so in the end she gave him to her sister. She constintly cries to me that she wants him back, but she knows the neccassary steps she needs to take and she hasn't. Not to mention even when she does she has a past that could destroy here what do you say to someone in this kind of sitation?
2 responses
@mialei23 (2385)
• Philippines
30 May 08
You mean when he gave birth her child was given to her sister and now she wants to get his child. frankly, its really hard to get pregnant at very young age, the parents of her maybe worried that she can't really able to sustain the needs of her child thats why they gave the child to her sister. How old is she? If she have a good job maybe she have the rights of her child, because whatever happens she still the Mother.
@sturner03 (326)
• United States
30 May 08
Yes. She is 18. But the babies almost a year old now and he is bonded with the sister and all her other kids and the husband so is it really fair to take him away from all he knows because she doesn't come around everyday.
@sisterjinx (1135)
• United States
30 May 08
I say if she wants that child back then she should fight for him. At this point she has nothing to lose. She already doesn't have him. The worst that can happen is that she still doesn't get him but at least she tried. If she doesn't try she is going to hate herself for it. And if she fights for him there is always that chance.
Tell her to go out NOW and take parenting courses. Tell her to get a job and a place to live. Tell her to get her life together and give the powers that be NO reason to look at her as less. While she is doing this she needs to begin taking the correct steps.
(if this is who I think it is I am proud of you for still sticking by her)
