why i hav to love?

Because you're breathing.

You do not "have" to love. But your life will be lonely and miserable. You do not have to be in a relationship. There are no rules about that. Most people prefer to, though. And love makes it so much better! If you feel that you "have" to love, then I assume that you do not love, that something has happened to your heart and soul that make it impossible for you to love. Loving yourself is the most important love of all. Because if you cannot love yourself, you cannot truly love anyone else, or your country, or family, etc. Your question is a little vague, so I'm trying to cover all the bases. I hope this helps. Welcome to myLot! I hope you stick around awhile. This is a great place to come and be with your "family".

loving is the happiest and the most exciting thing to do in the world. and it is also the most painful at times. loving makes the world go round (take for instance the love of God, but i don't mean to be preachy). i believe we are here in the world to love, it's our ultimate duty, and at the same time our ultimate gift. so why do you have to love? you don't have to love, you just feel it. you get what i mean? you don't need to force yourself to love. you don't have to look for it, it finds you. loving makes living worthwhile. it makes you happy, sad, inspired, disappointed and a host of various feelings. all feelings start with love. you won't feel jealous if you haven't felt love. you won't feel angry without having loved first, because then you don't have anything to be angry about. you have to love for the world, for others and most importantly, you have to love for yourself. loving another person is a sign that you love yourself. welcome to mylot!