your bestfriend fall inlove with you...

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2 of my bestfriend proposed to me... 1st was my college days,we are so close that his family knows me and they treat like im one of them... i know his secrets and he knows mine,i know whos his gf's and he knows my crush.i cry to him on my deepest agony and he hugs me and kiss my forehead to comfort me and thats no malice on me.i hug him when he needs,and always present on his hurtings..until a fren of ours told me,that my bestfern is inlove with me...few months already,i had ignore it and treated him the same way.even he already told me about his feelings,and told him that are friendship should be value,and better to keep that way... years after,we separated cos i hav to move away for work... then i met another friends,and another guy became my best freinds.at work we became so helpfull to each other and i never thought he will fall on me.we call each other best,and we been friends for 2 years alredy,until he proposed,he said since the day 1 hes already have feelings for me.its not that they are not my type,the reason i refuse them...its because friendship really means a lot on me.i am so confident to show them my actions ,expressions and i can face ther families with no malice... i have been polite to tell them 'no' lets keep it this way,i love you,your my best friend and dont want to loose ther friendships...but sumhow i know i hurt them,i dont want that to happen again... how bout you?...does this happen to you?... how do you handle this kind of situation?...