Is Marriage like a Cell Phone Contract?
By Nic
@academic2 (7000)
Uganda
May 30, 2008 6:45am CST
The truth is that marriage is nothing more than a legalized contract whose conceptual foundations are apparent in many facets of our society.
Take a look at the cell phone industry. They woo their customers like a serial bigamist, insanely driven to compete for us to join their plan and enter into "holy matrimony." They will make an honest woman out of us! The pre-marriage promises abound and it all starts like any love-hate relationship that we've no doubt have all embarked on! Do think marriage is like a Cell Phone Contract?
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9 responses
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
30 May 08
For some, I guess it is! Some are renewable, others are lifetime and some will expire!
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
31 May 08
Very accurate annalysis-that is exactly how different different people treat marriage!
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
31 May 08
Correct, can't also blame due to individual differences and other factors that are totally beyond our control!Cheers!
@alienstar (5142)
• India
31 May 08
Marriage is not be considered as a contract or anything like that instead we can say it is the bonding of love between 2 individuals and this bonding should be respected by both till the end of their life and each one should understand each other and taht is life
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
31 May 08
Thanks for this response-the bonding in marraige is better off rspected than not!
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
31 May 08
absolutely notyou have a strange way of comparing cp contract and marraige itself..too much difference i guess for once the couple bore children while the cp contract wont have oneand so many other differences too many to mentioned here...however what is synonymous between them is the contract paper itself duly signed by both parties..
@vaishalik (237)
• India
31 May 08
It depend on you how you maintain the relationship. I think in this holy ralationship Independence is equal, the dependence mutual & the obligation is reciprocal.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
31 May 08
Very true vaishalik-without mutality, marriage will crumble like a pack if cards!
@Samanthavv (1380)
• United States
31 May 08
Wow! I've never before heard of marriage being compared to a cell phone contract! There are several ways they are alike. I suppose they are comparable. Ha ha ha. Interesting to say the least!
@mayankbhushan (398)
• India
31 May 08
I do not think so that marriage is any cell phone contract. Most people marry because they really love one another and wish to live together, not to make empty promises they cannot fulfill.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
31 May 08
I agree absolutely with your view-we all want it that way, but something happaens along the way and it just collapses
@MsCYPRAH (394)
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30 May 08
Marriage is only like a cell phone contract if the two people do not love each other in the first place. But marriage is only a public affirmation of a private love. It should make no difference to the nature of the relationship at all. Anyone who does not take their marriage seriously would be insincere in the first place and just using the marriage as a convenience tool. Most people marry because they really love one another and wish to live together, not to make empty promises they cannot fulfil.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
31 May 08
You are aboslutely right here, we see alot of convenience marraige today in my city-you see a 24 year old man marrying a rich widow of 58 years-there nothing called love in this marriage, it is the financial convenience at the roots of this relationship!
@ade4real (30)
• Nigeria
31 May 08
marriage is a covenant btw 2 people to be for ever be commited to each other seeing it in any other way is placing it on a very wrong foundation.www.achieversideas.com
@skaterx (530)
• Finland
30 May 08
LOL but a cellphone contract usually only lasts for 2 years... Wait... that sounds familiar ;P.
Yes maybe you have a point there. Modern marriages are like that. They woo you by those low, monthly payments, until you realise when you sign, that it's actually a big commitment, and theres other costs too, like data plan etc. Yeah premarriage, everything looks good, until you find that the phone starts malfunctioning. Or the user interface is messed up. Or the sound quality isn't good. Or the buttons are placed in a way which makes you push the wrong one, which makes your husband, uh phone, mad.
Anyway, now I think i have to say, go contract free :D. Buy a phone, try it out for a while, if you don't like it, trade in for another one. Until you're really satisfied with your phone. Then you can uh, settle down with your phone and maybe get a contract. But the contract isnt necessary, its the phone thats important ;)
I actually want to find a good phone, and a good partner also, such a relevant topic :D. I didn't think of relationships in this perspective before! Thanks for starting this topic :)
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
31 May 08
May be those whocant really keep a marriage contract ought to heed your piece of advice LOL!