Marriage or live-in
By jhaniz56
@jhaniz56 (41)
Philippines
May 30, 2008 8:42pm CST
Why people get married yet others prefer "live-in"?
I want to get married someday but I have many questions in mind. Waht if he is like this or like that? So if possible, i want us live together for a month or so before we get married 'coz you will only know the real character of a person if you live in one roof. What about you friends here in Mylot?
3 responses
@janeandlet777 (11)
• Philippines
31 May 08
marriage if you no longer doubt his sincerity and live-in if there are signs that it won't work out. do not feel pressured by friends and family, its your life and its your opinion that matters.
@grammasnook (1871)
• United States
31 May 08
I think people that live together for a long time are just afraid of commitment. I think living together for a bit before marriage can be actually beneficial for some.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
31 May 08
Yes, I have heard this before.. You can only really know a person when you live with them.. Well I guess that is true. I have seen it all.. But if I was to be in love and really love a man, I would rather be married to him white staying in the same home..
@jhaniz56 (41)
• Philippines
31 May 08
Thanks creamy97! I am very much inlove with my boyfriend and he feels the same too. We're planning to get married in December,we're in the process of learning,knowing and accepting each other's good and bad side. But we're not yet living together.Hope we'll end up together!
