How Do You Spot A CHEAT?????

Personally, I like the ones that tell you they cheated on others before, but never would they cheat on you. I also love it when they become irate and can't believe that you would question their integrity. Of course you should know that if they didn't want to be with you, they'd just leave. Since that was not their pattern before, why wouldn't it be now? If you feel like it's happening, it's probably happening, especially if you don't normally have those feelings. There are always folks that always feel like they're being cheated on. You guys need to find another way to check yourselves. You can't trust your feelings and you can end up losing a good thing.

My ex cheated a lot, but I'll only post one of my stories here. My husband went out, he says to a friend's house. He came home at 4:00 a.m. I woke up when he came home, and boy, was I angry! I asked him where he had been until now, and he said "I can't lie to you. I went to a bar and met these two sisters. I went home with them, but as soon as I got there, I told them that I had a wife and newborn baby at home and couldn't do this. So I left and came home." I asked him, "Where did they live? Pennsylvania?" We lived in Maryland. At the most it would have taken him 1 hour to get back here from Pennsylvania, 2 if they lived in northern PA, and ONLY if they left the bar at closing time. The bars close at 2:00 a.m. He came home at 4? That's two hours. Way too much time between the closing of the bars and his arriving home if he was so innocent. No, he was cheating. Okay, I'll tell you one more story. He came home, after a night out, around 6 in the morning. Apparently, he wasn't too sleepy to take his clothes off, but wasn't able to get upstairs to bed. He fell asleep on the couch. I gathered his clothes up because I was about to do laundry (about 8:00 a.m.). Going through his pockets before putting them in the washer, I found a girl's phone number. I saw red! I called the number and spoke to the girl. She freaked and told me, "He said he wasn't married!" I called my lawyer, who told me to put his essential things in a box, put it by the door, wake him up and tell him to get out. That's exactly what I did.