Are You Somehow Irritated When Someone Here Calls You By Your First Name?

@eihdra (3115)
Philippines
May 31, 2008 2:13am CST
Situation is, you are not friends yet or this is the first time you have encountered this fellow Mylotter. But whenever he/she replies to your posts, They will end the response by writing your name. I am guilty of this,very much, because I usually write the profile name or the real name, if given, after each post. I thought it would be kinda a personalized comment and not just a repetition of what others usually writes. Would you be offended? Are you the one who doesn't care? Or it is much better that way? Please share your thoughts..
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9 responses
@Tianna2 (1273)
• United States
31 May 08
Hello Eihdra, I always start my post by saying hello or hi to the person I'm responding to. I wouldnt be offended if someone wanted to personalize there posts, seems like kind of a friendly gesture to me. At least that way I know that you know who your talking to. Yours truly, Tianna
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@eihdra (3115)
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
thanks too...
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@Tianna2 (1273)
• United States
7 Jun 08
Thank you for the best response! Tianna
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
7 Jun 08
eihdra I am happy either being called hatley which is just my last name or Patsie as I am a friendly person and not easily irritated. In fact Ilike my name to be used as it is more personal and more meaningful too.
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@eihdra (3115)
• Philippines
18 Jul 08
both your two names are really cute...thanks, patsy...
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
6 Jun 08
No, I don't feel offended at all. Calling by first name is a sign of friendliness. That's perfectly alright for me. For example, would you be offended if I called you "eihdra" ? Best regards.
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@eihdra (3115)
• Philippines
18 Jul 08
no, it's alright for me too..thanks...
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
The truth is, I don't really care if a myLotter calls me by my name. It doesn't matter to me. I guess I wouldn't be offended with that. If a mylotter would like to address me with my name.
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@eihdra (3115)
• Philippines
18 Jul 08
thanks, dhang...
• South Korea
6 Jun 08
I don't mind at all. People have different ways of showing their respects and greetings. As long as I like the idea and message in their comment.
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@eihdra (3115)
• Philippines
18 Jul 08
hehehhe..it would be really offending if they used your name and then criticize you in their posts...thanks arlene...
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Hi eihdra! I dont see any problems with calling people by their first name. I love people calling me by my first name. I have nothing to hide. Names are meant to be used for people to identify us from the rest - individuality.
@eihdra (3115)
• Philippines
18 Jul 08
thanks....
• Canada
31 May 08
hi eihdra, i don't have my real name on my profile. that's the reason i have a user name-go ahead and use that-i think that does personalize responses-but it's fine either way with me.
@eihdra (3115)
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
sometimes, other people puts their real name after they respond..thanks...
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
31 May 08
As for me, no problem with that...after all my name is the sweetest name to my ear. I find nothing offending should I read my name being written in answer to my post and in fact I find it quite sweet and friendly! So if you answer my post, go and write my name by all means. Happy posting!
@eihdra (3115)
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
I'll be happy to use it too..thanks..
@kassdaw (591)
• United States
31 May 08
I am not one to care if someone uses my profile name or my real name. I don't think people really should care. As long as you don't put their full name and address. But that is just a personal opinion.
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@eihdra (3115)
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
thanks..