help me guys about love
By zurcaled
@zurcaled (32)
Philippines
May 31, 2008 8:00am CST
I hope you can help me guys with my problem about love.
i have a girlfriend and our relationship is only 4 months old. we had a misunderstanding and we had a love quarrel. since last month, every time we were together, we were having a misunderstanding which resulted to a fight.
I really hate fight and even just a small thing that i've done wrong, she always make it a big bad thing.
now my feelings for her is gone. I really want to tell her if we could be just friends. but i can't do it.
The reason is she told me that if i would break with her, she will resign in her job and she also told me that she will do something that i will not like.
I don't know what to do so please help me guys.
THANKS,
2 responses
@patchmypal (344)
• Philippines
31 May 08
Hey man, don't despair! If i were you i'd let things cool down first. No woman would want to be dumped by any man, especially if its her boyfriend. As you said, she's began to threaten you if you dump her, crazy huh! She sounds desperate too not to lose you, so i guess there may still be that second chance for both of you. But you said your feelings are now gone. In that case, the best you can do is wait for the right time to talk it out with her. It may hurt a lot to her to know the truth, but the truth will set you free! In time, she'll get over it. You just got to move on..Good luck!
@gloreymay (882)
• Philippines
31 May 08
Before you broke up with her I think you two have to talk. If you can solve that problem better if not then you have to decide what's best for both of you. Sometimes you also have to be patient. Girls have a lot of mood swings which you have to understand. Talking things out could really help, why don't you have an agreement and maybe rules in you're relationship which could help you both lessen your quarrels.
