Talk To Me Night.......###...**
By nupats
@nupats (3564)
India
May 31, 2008 10:45am CST
How often do u use this line Talk to me? my husband is on a much quiter side and hardly speaks he just loves to laze around watch tv and have some junk..i feel bad bcoz at times i feel lonely and i tell him Talk to me and he does try but in vain he tells me i cant talk much bcoz it is not in my nature...then i get angry and tell him Dont Talk to me....so now he kids around that after marriage there are two kinds of nights talk to me night and dont talk to me nights...Does your partner talk to u? do u also have talk to me and dont talk to me nights? are men quiter by nature? pls tell me..
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nice discussion, well i am male and i talk to my wife too, and sure every one have talk to me night and dont talk to me night, why u want to reveal bed room secrets
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
5 Jun 08
ha ha ha
i can understand what u want to saybut since last 2 yrs, we have only one channel in our bed room and thats Baby TV, whenever we want to change, he says Baby TV, baby TV, and have it, LOL
well we have both nights but for differnt reason, most of times we have talk to me nights
LOl
take care
@nupats (3564)
• India
5 Jun 08
it is not a bedroom secret but night is the only time we get to spend together as a family so after finishing with dinner and cleaning the kitchen i want to generally talk to him abt wt happed today how was his day or i want to tell him wt our son did or some ladies gossip and he is not intrested he just wants to watch the stupid TV..then i get angry on no response frm his side bcoz he mutes the tv and still keeps watching and then i tell him dont talk..so he pulls my leg tht after marriage it is always talk to me or dont talk to me nights..
@johnson3 (152)
• United States
5 Jun 08
I am not really sure if they are quiet by nature or not. I really think that they enjoy talking about what concerns or interest them. My husband will talk to me all day about money, bills/business, and things concerning stability and future (which is good), but relationship and spending time he gets stuck! I can hardly get him to talk about issues that affect our marriage for the worse. I try my best to understand, but most of the time I feel lonely too. Its like women need the communication, but men just don't have to have it. I try to bring it out of him, but he just won't open up to me. Do you think it could be from background or past relationships? I'm not sure--are you?
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@nupats (3564)
• India
5 Jun 08
my husband does not talk abt his office bcoz he says i dont wanna involve u in the tensions there and moreover i will not understand as he is a techie...all abt the house payment of bills investments bank accounts are my duties bcoz i am frm the accounting field so i have a fair knowledge abt tht..but i want tht girly talks and tht he cannot do and does not show intrest in listning to my gossips also midway he will doze off or watching tv..feel like throwing the tv out of the house....he and I have no past we have been together since i was 18 and he 20 his nature is like that my mom in law says my father in law is also same...so was just curious tht are men like this?
@Sweettatas01 (443)
• United States
1 Jun 08
I Think men are just afraid that they might say something wrong. lol lots of men fear their woman's fury!
However, communication is very important in a relationship. He should be able to talk to you easily! I talk to my boyfriend everyday. If he messes with me to make me mad, I just get a "your so cute when your mad"... and when he knows Im serious, we talk it out til were blue in the face and the anger just fades away... then everything is okay.
But if your husband loves you... he should understand that communicating with you is important and that you feel lonely. Do you tell him that you feel lonely?
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@Xdrowninghavocx (3117)
• United States
2 Jun 08
I think talk to me nights are a good thing. If I were in a relationship, I'd want those. I'm not big on talking because I'm usually thinking about something. And I don't really like sharing my feelings. But at the same time I wouldn't want to be dumped because I stay quiet all the time. I need that balance.
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@nupats (3564)
• India
3 Jun 08
sweet thoughts...talk to me nights are fun at times bcoz then i get to corner my hubby he sits and talks all crap tht he can think off and then a dumb smile and i will tell him keep talking thenhe tells me u talk i will listen and wee have a hearty laugh abt the whole thing..good to b quiet but it can become boring for ur companion sometimes...communication is a must...so u take care...have a nice day...thanx for sharing ur views
I leave it as it is.
