How can we be so different.

You are different because you made different choices to began with. If one of your sisters had chosen to get an education instead of live for fun she would have probably turned out more like you. I am totally different from my sisters (2) personality, looks ,the way we view the world and see things are completely different.

We just are I have two sisters, one is my twin and we couldnt be more different, she rained as a nursery nurse and is now settled in a good relationship with two kids. My youngest sister is also a trained nursery nurse and would love kids one day probably soon. Me............well am a professional dog groomer dont have any plans on children any time soon either. We are just different we like different things and made different choices. Nothing wrong in that.

No two things are alike.You are an individual. You have different set of friends or people you hang out with which sometimes influenced you to become the kind of person you are now. There is also the personal thoughts and emotions on handling the situations, and maybe you're sisters have a different way of handling things which in their mind they thought is right or that the person they talked to sometimes gave them the idea that it is just okey. Like me, im also one of the three girls. We were raised on same values but we still have our differences especially on dealing with our problems. We tend to clash on ideas and answers. The choice we make are different but we all have common values.

Even though you all grew up in the same house, just like most siblings look different they act and react differently toward things as well. It also has to do with friends who may have influenced you all differently when you were growing up. When I got my first real boyfriend, who lived in the neighborhood, I hung out with him and his friends all the time and they had a bad influence on me. I always thought I could bring him up to my level, but instead, I let him drag me down to his level. I became someone completely different from what I always thought I would be. I eventually realized, after a few years, that was not who I really was and broke it off with him. I do thank God all the time for my husband because I know what I could have ended up with. My sister is 13 months younger than me and we grew up in the same house, exposed to the same things. I used to be so mousy; she would speak on my behalf if something bothered me. At this point in my life, I am more mouthy than mousy. If I disagree with something or someone, for the most part, I will not hesitate to tell them. This is just who I have become over the years. I think having children (now 11 and 13 years old) forced me to come out of my shell. I felt it was my responsibility to be their advocate. Of course since then, 13 years ago, I don't think I have stopped telling people what I think. I hope this helps you.