Is she mad? Why?
By SkyFyre
@SkyFyre (4)
United States
May 31, 2008 10:23pm CST
Well one of my friends that I knew for about a year just seemed perfect for me and after talking about it with a couple of my friends they thought I should ask her out and give it a go. Now this did not work out as I planned she totally and utterly rejected me. She used the old line "I see you as a brother". The worst part was I have her in Spanish class! And I was heartbroken over her for at least a 2 months. Though I was gone for the first month during school on a vacation (workined some things out with the school). And one day in Spanish about 2 1/2 months after I asked her I went to go get my book and I was in the isle in the way, and along she comes, now first we had that awkward struggle of ok ill go this way and you go that, and the next thing I know she screamed "MOVE JUSTIN!!" and me being a guy had to say something back and i responded, though not as loud as her "MOVE (name removed)!" Now I know when she is joking and playing around and that did not feel like one of those moments. And we never spoke to eatchother in between the asking and that moment. Is she mad at me? Possibly for being the one to ruin our friendship? Or for not being man enough to say something to her after what happened?
3 responses
@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
1 Jun 08
With me being a female. I would have to say she might be upset with you. You have not talked to her in 2 1/2 months after she said "I see you as a brother". I would try talking to her as a friend. Tell her you want nothing more then a friendship with her. She will probably talk to you if you dont bring up the past converstation with her. Good luck.
@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
2 Jun 08
I would first try walking up to her and telling her you have screwed up and you are very sorry she took any offense and would still like to be friends. If she ignores you, I would try calling her and if she doesnt answer just leave a very kind message on the machine.
@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
1 Jun 08
i guess it would be a little ackward...after everything what would you expect right?even if you are a guy you will also feel ackward..just talk to her and patch things-up..i am sure she wants to be you friend still...
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
1 Jun 08
Is it the friendship that is ruin or maybe she does not know how to cope with it. Alot of friends find this to happen in their friendship. The only advice I would tell you is to call her and have a nice conversation. Let her know that you miss her friendship and it was a mistake to think that you would go further. Let her know also that friends does have up and down but it is how you handle it. 
