do you mind your girl friend is not a virgin?

@lieanat (1137)
Malaysia
June 1, 2008 4:51am CST
I just want to know how man perceive this "virginity" in our world today. So, please response sincerely from your heart. Besides, what will you do when you found out that she's not virgin or she choose to tell you first?
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@mopiss (154)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
1 Jun 08
I prefer a not virgin girlfriend
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@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
1 Jun 08
Thanks for your comment here. May I know why you prefer a non virgin girlfriend? Most of the guys will dream to have that, I believe. Thanks.
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@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
4 Jun 08
Oh, I see. Thanks for your clarification. That's quite true too especially for guys like you.. hahaha.
@mopiss (154)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
4 Jun 08
Oh, just complementing my answer, I prefer a "sexperienced" girl!
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• China
12 Jun 08
My girlfriend is not a virginity when i met her.Surely we did't become lovers at that time,just one year later.I don't care if she is a virginity.She loves me sincerely and i love her.That's enough.True love is not prevented by anything.
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@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
12 Jun 08
Thanks for your comment. I am glad that you don't mind about this virginity issue. Have a nice day.
@missak (3311)
• Spain
2 Jun 08
I think that actually I really don't mind what she has made before meeting me, she had her life and now we should enter a new life, and the previous one is not my concern. So she can tell me about it if she feels like, just because we are sincere to each other and can now each other in a deep wat, but I wont ask and I don't need to know... I would want she has the same actitude towards me...
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@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
2 Jun 08
Thanks for your comment. I respect you for your thoughts. It's true that we should treasure our current relationship. Why still want to care about our past history especially those bad memories or experiences!
@benx22 (87)
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
virginity doesn't matter to me now...i have slept with others as well. it would just be fair to my wife to be if she has slept with men before me.
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@benx22 (87)
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
if i haven't slept with anyone before i got married, and she did, my love won't change. i can't fix what's broken.
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@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
1 Jun 08
Thanks for your reply here. It's fair to your future wife. But if you never slept with others before, and she did, will you mind about that?
@zijezz (17)
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
yeah, you're right. we can't change the past right.?
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
when i met my wife she was 28 years old already so i was expecting already that she was no longer a virgin. she didnt tell me and i didnt ask her. that doesnt matter to me. we are married for five years already and we have a son.
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@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
1 Jun 08
Thanks for your comment. I respect you for your acceptance and love for your wife. Many man especially asian guy still mind this virginity thingy!!!
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
i am a lier if i say that i dont want to end up with someone who is virgin, but when you love someone very dearly and trully and deeply you will not care of what is her past. i may not be her first one but i am the last and thats important for me.
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@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
2 Jun 08
You have the right attitutes. I think your girl friend will be very happy if she know you have such thought!
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
i would feel special if my girlfriend is still a virgin and i will be her first. but if she happens to be not, which like what happened in my case, i do not really mind. i love her in the same way whether she is a virgin or not.
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@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
1 Jun 08
Thanks for your comment. Virginity should not be the main issue in our relationship as it's really hard to find someone who is still virgin on the first day of marriage! Haha...
@figjam00 (1445)
• India
14 Jun 08
I know in today's times its hard to find girls who isn't a virgin. Personally I would mind if my girlfriend isn't a virgin. Because I myself am a virgin so I would want a girl who is virgin. I would expect her to tell me instead of being found out. Because I don't want anything hidden in relationship.
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@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
Thanks for your sincere response. Hope you will find a girl that is still virgin. Even if she's not, do love her as how you love her always.
• Thailand
1 Jun 08
I do not mind but It would be greater for me if my girlfriend and me are the first one (and just only one) of each another. That's my opinion and it's fortunately happen to me. My girlfriend and me are both virgin until we met.
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@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
1 Jun 08
You are lucky, man. So as your girl friend too. Treasure your relationship with each other. It's really hard to find a couples that give their virginity to each other nowadays.
@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
1 Jun 08
Congratulations! Hope you two will have a happy wedding and marriage too.
• Thailand
1 Jun 08
Yeah, I totally agree with you. I am certainly lucky to have my girlfriend and we plan to get married in the next year (or a couple of years).
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• Nigeria
25 Jun 08
To be frank with you, I don't like virgins. I tried to make love to a virgin when I was 17 years old and I didn't quite find it funny. One of my criteria of going out with any girl is that she must not be a virgin. I love non-virgins 100% more. I love to be free and easy going, no tight schedules and tight corners.
@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
27 Jun 08
wow, that's interesting. Thanks for your comment. Though they're not virgin, do treat them good.
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
It's nice if a woman who has kept herself reserved for her future husband... IT WILL BE A REAL FORTUNE... but if not, it is ok as long as you truly love her.
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@lieanat (1137)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
Thanks for your comment. It's another fortune if the guy is a virgin too. That's equally fair to each other. Have a nice day.
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
how'd you know i am!!! lol hehehe