how i wish i am a stay at home mom

Both my parents worked and I think if you have a good balance and your child at least has someone with him, then it should be alright. I'm a SAHM and it was by choice in a way. My husband wanted me to be one and its actually cheaper for us. I can probably only find a min wadge job and what I make in that alone will pay for child care. We're not rich either and we live paycheck to paycheck. I'm trying to work at home to make up for my lack of financial support and try to ease some of my husbands stress. He just always wants someone home when the kids get home from school. He never had that and was alone a lot so he wanted something different for his children. I don't mind at all. It is stressful and I do miss adult interaction but at the end its worth it.

You can be a working Mom and still spent time with your kids. Whatever chores you are doing you can invite them to be with you. Making these chores enjoyable for both of you. Let it be fun time and not chore time. Then you can also has family time. Either on a sunday/saturday evening. During family time you can play board games, study the bible, or just catching up on each other. A working Mom is not a crime. Just do not neglect your family.