TRUE Love Exist???

Mauritius
June 1, 2008 11:26am CST
Somehow I wanna truly and really love a girl. But the same damn problem arise everytime. No one wants real love! Everybody just wanna have some fun...go out a few times...a few kisses...blablabla then go after another one. I really want to give all my love and be sincere to only one girl. But always get the same damn feedback...Maybe am the odd one in this world??? I don't think real love still exist nowadays. If the girl is sincere...the guy is a jerk! If the guy is sincere...then the girl may not be. I wish I was tarzan and be living in the jungle. LOL
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24 responses
• United States
2 Jun 08
I truly do think true love exists, no matter who you are. You may not have found her yet. It's never too late to find someone, so if you want to have fun now, then go ahead. Although, I'm the type of person who enjoys having someone to answer to and to rely on. These days, with the hatred of the world (as hippie as that sounds), someone to love would be an escape. At the end of the day, someone to cuddle with and kiss and someone to let you know you are definitely loved is an extraordinary feeling. If you really want to find someone, then try a bit harder. Go more places, try new things. There are people everywhere. If you want to be riskier, you can even try the internet. (:
• Mauritius
2 Jun 08
hmm yea infact i mer her on hi5 lol. She live just 2 kn away from me i always saw her but then 3 weeks ago i saw her hi5 profile and got her mail address...and the story started lol
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
1 Jun 08
Remember even tarzan get a taste of real love. Real love does exist. In love you have to exercise patience and understanding. Sometimes the one that you interested in is not the one who are likely to be there for you. Maybe you have to go outside that box which you create for yourself. Love is something that grow. If there is someone outside your box who is attractive to you maybe you can date her. Sometimes you will shock to see that there are other person who is outside your crew who has the same interest as you. Remember there are Lust, Infatuation and Real Love. Ask yourself which one of these you really want. Then when you decide you will see the world in a different light. All the best.
• India
1 Jun 08
ya right...exactly....like how jane came into jungle and found Tarzan....lol...
@aero89 (422)
• United States
3 Jun 08
Yes, true love exists. It doesn't come easy, even after you've found it. Love is probably the most difficult emotion to explain because there are so many forms of it; but I say to you: Your special person will come along - as long as you don't shut them out internally and unintentionally by questioning whether true love exists. You have to KNOW it does, and you have to SHOW that you know.
• United States
6 Jun 08
Hi Kirt true love do exist. Don't give up on. Keep on trying, I belive there is someone out there for every one yes it take's time it is fursting but keep the faith maybe you are iooking in the worng places try some way new.
• Canada
8 Jul 08
Aw...you sound so sweet. Don't get discouraged though. I totally believe in love and you should too. You sound young or at least the woman you're going out with sounds young. Live and love, never give up on true love, you will get it more than you know where you least expect it. Stop looking and live your life and I promise you it will come then.
@ReenaDKL (206)
• Mauritius
8 Jul 08
True love... Hard to find, harder to keep :) Yeah true love does exist...you just have to let it come to you...When we r at school/college etc.. we think we have found love (actually very few do..and it does last 4ever..yet few, very few) but it's more physical attraction or infatuation. You just have to wait, it will come...maybe later for some..or sooner for others...but true love does exist. You just have to close your eyes and let your heart lead you...
@applefreak (3130)
• Singapore
2 Jun 08
hmm maybe you have not met the right one yet? sometimes you can't just GO and love someone. i'm a firm believer of true love. thankfully i'm in a loving relationship with the same person for the last ten years. i don't believe in falling in love with many people. there can only be ONE true love and it really takes time to find him/her. don't despair, your true love is somewhere waiting for you. maybe she has so many bad experiences with jerks and you are the only one who can save her.
• Philippines
3 Jun 08
Of course!!True love really exist but in the right time,place and person.I had also experienced being jerked by someone.Lots of times ive cried.But now ived found my real love in the person of my husband.Weve encountered los of trials like jealously,our parents toring us apart,bad infuence with his and my friends,and worst deciding both of us to be apart.But because we really love each other we overcome all this trials in our lives.And i hope we can still overcome all the upcoming trials up ahead with our love for each other and we the help of the almighty God.You think this is not true love?
@property (453)
• United States
2 Jun 08
Absolutely it exists! I hit my thirties before I experienced it, but now that I have found it I will never let it go!!! I have never felt such a powerful emotion before. I have been in long term relationships in the past, but never felt "bonded" to the person. My mate and I have such a deep bond now that all of the other people I was with in the past seems like a joke. He knows me better than I know myself sometimes... and I know him better too! The feelings for him don't dull with time but get stronger, though I would have never guessed it was possible. I adore EVERYTHING about him. I'd do anything for him. I KNOW he feels the same. There is NO question... no insecurities, no hesitation. I'm not saying the other men I had been with were all jerks... some of them were and still are good people, but I never loved them like this. I won't ever do anything to jeopardize our relationship because it means to much to me. I know he feels the same. Don't give up, it will happen, but don't settle either. If you find yourself in a relationship that is not perfect, you are just wasting both you and your girlfriends time... move on, it will happen eventually.
• China
2 Jun 08
Hi,kurtavish.I believe true love exist.I think you can't because of a failure to deny the exitence of true love.In my opinion,you yet not find a right lover.^_^
• China
2 Jun 08
Yes im sure true love exists.We've loved for more than four years though we can meet only once a month,but we are happy and prepare to go on...:) Have a nice day and go on be sincere you'll meet a girl as sincere as you are.
@naaadh (217)
• United States
2 Jun 08
No. I dont think what your thinking is right. your not the only one, and all the girls are not the same. true love exists. Do u know, im still with my first love. I have never been with another girl and she has never been with another boy. Its been 4 years and we are going to marry soon. Its just that we both are lucky. My first is my last and she is my true love. Its hard to belive unless you see it for yourself. Never be afraid to give something thinking that you might lose alot. you too might be lucky. dont just go after any girl. Go after a girl who has the same thinking as yours, who loves you back too.
• China
2 Jun 08
true love exist,though i haven't this love experience.i still believe true love exist.before i have the same thought as you.i'm a girl.but i meet the first boyfriend who dumped me. he said i was so sincere and easy to got my love.lol.in fact,i didn't care i was dumped by him.i don't love a person who don't like me. in my life i believe the love need long time to build between two.first the most important thing is that you are fall in love each other.
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
good day kurtavish, about your topic i think and as what i saw,true love do really exists,unfortunately god have not yet given you the right person.My advise to you is that wait and dont do what others dont want you to do unto you,like for example hurting a person deep inside.thanks and just wait and pray to god
• India
2 Jun 08
This is really a big problem from a girl as they don't believe in true love from her heart . They do promise , but only for break those . I have been through very critical situation just some days before and how I survived , I can't tell you . How I feel about all those feelings and still I am going through , that is really a best example my friends has been got from me to look forward about making any serious relationship ... Thanks !!!
@chryss (658)
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
if you will be in the jungle you will meet jane lol! maybe the right girl is not yet existing for you.ladies around you are just display and want to hang out with you and some wants to play and hurt you.have patience!the real girl will come and approach you and share love and everything to you..maybe she is out there and cupid still searching her.love yourself and enjoy..i know time will come and happiness will pour on you after you have that girly..
• United States
1 Jun 08
I, do believe in TRUE LOVE. I know that they are people out there that want to love and want to be loved. There is a quote I live by, "In life you'll love many but be in love only once".
@nupats (3564)
• India
1 Jun 08
true love does exist...dont go looking and searching for it...it will happen and u will not even realise..true love in not only abt being physical but also abt caring and trusting each other..Tarzan also had to wait for his Jane to come...u take care and ur Jane will come in ur city..have a nice day
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
1 Jun 08
aww, true love - this is cute and mushy
It is out there it just sometimes will take longer than we may want. True love usually will just come out of the blue and bite ya in the bum! You will find someone who wants the same things as you want, and right now you are just getting all the wrong type of girls. May you find what you are looking for soon . Who knows it might even be right in frot of you and you dont know.
@tuyetmai (30)
• United States
2 Jun 08
I think true love is one of a thing that a lot people have a good and bad experiences. I searching for someone really love me too, but unfortunately there a lot of thing happend in this word. Would you agree? :) Hope life will be what we want.