Why loving someone is sometimes so difficult and hurt?

Oh my God, I have been there. I fell in love with my bestfriend and he did too. It was complicated and difficult to choose what to do. So, you're bestfriend's girlfriend is your friend too? and your boyfriend is also his friend?

love hurts when it's kept for a long time. it hurts even more when you realize that you just can't be together. i have the same situation with you. difference is, the other person is a guy. well, i made a discussion about soul mates and i think that he is mine. he feels the same but we can't show our affection because of the norms of life. we kept our love for each other until now. i broke up with my girlfriend because she felt that there was something between with me and him. Eventually, she found it out because he told her. and i cannot deny it. so, then he knew that i love him, he loves me, my ex-girlfriend knew that we love each other. BUT, we can't. It hurts. It really hurts. But I am starting to accept the reality that we can't be what I want us to be. That's life. Sometimes, it sucks.

u cant stop love so dont fool yourself. i tried it and no it doesn't work. take your time if it is meant to be you'll be together. i stop fighting love, took my time in life and love came back for me. DON'T CHEAT!!! he's temporarily blinded, however u cant love 2 men so get your priorities str8 and be single and available or LET HIM GO!!!! i waited 2 years....patience.........

There ain’t much problem about loving someone, but your problem exists because both of you are committed to someone else. If you love this man, and he loves you too, the best thing is for both of you to tell your partners about your love to the other person. It is very unfair to be with someone and be inlove with another person.

That is the problem with us...we just think that love is just for happiness...loving someone and really making out lives to get them is wat very few people who are blessed will achieve.... Will you care for if you achieve it easily...idont think so...

This is not easy to deal with,but if you still keep relationship with ur bf u no longer love,it will hurt both u and ur bf as time goes. So stay with sb you love and you are happy to be together with. But before make any decisions,make everything clear,such as you really love the guy u mentioned or just curious about him.If yes,does he love u?

That's a hard situation. But remember we only have one heart and that means we only have to love one person. So better choose one now before its too late. You can't have the best of both worlds and it's true. It is wrong to cheat and you know that. So why not let the agony take you long? Decide now.

When we love, we get hurt. If we don't get hurt that is not love. Loving involves sacrifices and hurts... Love is not all about happiness... It is not a fairytale, that every she and he will live happily ever after. Love is life, we must struggle to survive.

NO secrets can be kept for too long. the more you keep that secret, the more you'll hurt your friends and yourself. you'll never be contented with all the possible relationship that will come your way if you don't tell the truth. truth hurts but only truth can set you all free. and trust me, somehow they know about your feelings cause eyes can't lie.

oh.. well i can understant your feelings.... but I advice you that if you really love that guy so tell everything to your boyfriend.... because I know that you cant live like this..