Relationship with my BF,he cheated on me
By shadowsober
@shadowsober (33)
China
June 2, 2008 1:33am CST
I knew my bf one year ago.But just after we knew each other 5 months.He has an fair with a college student who he got to know on internet.Once i fighting with him becasue he don't belive me,and i moved out.And the time period,he brought the girl back to our appartment and slept with her 6 days and 5 nights.I found out and slaped him in the face.I decided break up with him becasue he is is a betrayal.But since he kept on begger me back and kicked the girl away because he said he loves me so much,i forgave him.But in those days i just can not forget what he had done to me.i just hate him whenever i saw him.And sometimes yell at him without any reason.I can not control myself.Just resent what had happened to me.
He asked me to marry him,but now i can't coz i can not make up my mind.
Will you forgive your soul mate betray you and sleep with other?
3 responses
@Carolxu (50)
• China
3 Jun 08
I'm sorry to hear that.I think it is too pain of hating someone,and he definitely feel pain when you yell at him without any reason,it is bad to you relationship.
If you realy love him and he care you always,so forgive him and forget bad thing....it's just my opinion
@shadowsober (33)
• China
4 Jun 08
Maybe i need time to forgive and forget,But right now i am really in pain.Heart broken.
@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
I'm sorry to hear about your bf. Well, it is good that you forgave him but it's the pain that is really hard to forget. Betrayal by sleeping with another partner is I think the hardest to forgive. I don't want to go in and be in the middle. Just a friendly advise, you may give him the benefit of the doubt that he will not do it again.
However, try give it more time to see whether he was sincere or not. If your relationship isn't going too well, like you said, you are already shouting at him. It's may not be healthy anymore. Remember as well that there is still a possibility that he may do it again.
@shadowsober (33)
• China
4 Jun 08
yes,whenever i face him i will think of what he had done to me,i just can't help to fighting with him.But another way,i did try to get rid of him,but it seems that he can't leave me alone.he said he loves me so much and as me to marry with him.i don't know when i will forget this,but i am sure i can't for the moment.
@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
4 Jun 08
That is totally understandable. Continue to be strong. You can do it. Take care. 
