your love

I stayed away from him. I have been through the same thing. My ex boyfriend told me that he thought he loved me then about a month later after I believe the first break up he decided that he would do me wrong and then ask to be my friend. I was hurt and it took a little while to heal my heart but I avoided him. I hope that if this has happened to you that you proceed with caution and make sure you keep your heart sheltered from this person. Good Luck with whatever you decide!

So,first,I just want to know if and how he knows you love him. Then,you are just to be good friends if he feeled that you love him.Because he just wants to be a friend. If you told him you loved him,don't worry too much and just do what you just do before.By this way,you can give him enough time to think about your relationship. Let the thing goes by themselves.

I thik its wird situation, when he says he loves you, why he is thinking that despite of loving, it will not work? you want to stay as friends only. i will nmake the thing clear and then decide.

Obviously he is a confused brother and you don't wanna involve yourself with such. I'd advise you to keep away - he has hurt you, he's hurt your feelings and you will not get over it unless you give yourself some space from him.

It all depends on you. If you cannot really bear the thought that he changed emotion just like that that keep away from him until you overcome your sorows. But you can always treat him as your friend when you are already emotionally prepared. If your heart can bear then just be his friend and do not stay away! At least he is being honest with his feelings instead of fooling you all the way. If the person does not love you anymore, it's better to know it than to remain in a one way relationship that will only break your heart sooner or later. Accept the truth, be friends with him and find another one much more worthy of you love. Make yourself more beautiful than ever so that that guy will regret what he let loose. God bless!