pesonality or looks?

@danoluma (817)
Kenya
June 2, 2008 4:00am CST
which one would you prefer in a relationship? personality or looks?
11 responses
@bestie (3272)
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
I prefer personality rather than looks. Looks doesn't really matter for me.
@danoluma (817)
• Kenya
2 Jun 08
Thats a great preference but are you sure you don't get carried a way with looks?
@bestie (3272)
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
Really I'm not! attitude and intelligence are my bases.So no matter how good looking you are,if you don't have the attitude and intelligence,I don't care.
@gwenns (255)
• Singapore
2 Jun 08
Definitely personality! It's what that will last. I've came across people who have the looks, but they stink.. whenever I look at them, I felt that they don't look as pretty/handsome as first sight. So... it's important to know someone first before going into a relationship! Cheers~
@danoluma (817)
• Kenya
2 Jun 08
Can you consider having a bad looking person with a great personality?
@gwenns (255)
• Singapore
2 Jun 08
Hmm, well.. let me put it in this way, I had a natural distrust for people who had the looks (LOL), so I will spend more time approaching them or observing their personalities. People who had great personalities, regardless of looks, I definitely would be more than happy to have them as friends. I'm not that good looking anyways, I would be happy if others would not mind my looks.. I mean it's like everyone should treat others like how we want others to treat us. For me, it's not about the looks, it's the appearance. I prefer someone looking neat, clean and how they carry themselves.. all these reflect on their personalities. ^^
@kingcrapper (1536)
• United States
2 Jun 08
I have met some really hot women who had very bad personalities and some really personalbe women with average looks. Hmm. If I had to choose I would have to know what the situation was. If I am looking to score a one night stand I would head right for the good looking one. If I am looking for a long term relationship, I would take the other. Looks can fade with age but personality usually doesn't!
@danoluma (817)
• Kenya
2 Jun 08
is it true that very hot women have bad personalities coz I have been in the same situation like you. Have you ever met a hot chick with great personality?
@angemac23 (2003)
• Canada
2 Jun 08
I prefer personality. If A person does not have a good personality, the have nothing!
@danoluma (817)
• Kenya
2 Jun 08
what if they have both?
@sd_abot (177)
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
Both??? But I much prefer personality for a relationship. A little of looks too. For me, personality is more important than looks. So what if, he/she is good looking but has bad manners or personality, right???
@danoluma (817)
• Kenya
2 Jun 08
what if he is bad looking with great personality?
• China
2 Jun 08
Personality always comes first, in my opinion. My boyfriend is not accepted by all our family members though they think he is not tall. But I still insist on our love become I appriciate his personality very much.
@danoluma (817)
• Kenya
2 Jun 08
Did you love him because of his personality or there was something else in it?
@TheDevil (840)
• India
2 Jun 08
Personality ..if someone has the good personality and the right attitude ...it can turn an average looking person into a great looking person.
@oliverdt (1958)
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
I go for personality, looks is not forever but personality is. I rather have a relationship with a good personality than good look. I believe that their is no ugly person in the world. We are made equal by God and its up to us how to handle what we are and what we have.
@kame_w (104)
• China
2 Jun 08
Can I have both...haha.. of course personality. Looks will disappear one day while personality go with one in his entire life. But it will be perfect if I get one with good personality and looks.
@Mrchikeh (53)
5 Jun 08
Very simple:"Personality".Look is also important as many would like good-looking partners,but it's not a determinant factor.However,some persons would still go for looks.
• Pakistan
2 Jun 08
personality is more important near me