What is the best age to get married?
By naaadh
@naaadh (217)
United States
June 2, 2008 5:45am CST
Ok. i have found the love of my life. I trust her she trusts me and we both love each other more than anything in this world. We have sacrificed alot for each other and survived through think and thin. We have similar thinking, and everyone says we are the best matching couple in the town. We broke the school record when we studied in school as the longest lasting couple. Im planning to marry her when im 25. Right now im 18. We both are going to move out of the country together for higher studies. Is it the right age for us to get married? And considering how well we are getting along together do you think we should marry sooner? When did you marry and are you happy about it?
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@bdugas (3578)
• United States
2 Jun 08
In my opinion a person marries when they are mature enough and have the income to support a marriage, not just because they are in LOVE, sometimes love looks good at first, but then fizzles out before long when the bills start coming in. Right now you are 18 and although you believe you will still be together at the age of 25, and you might, tht is a long time off and people change. when you say you are both moving out of the country for higher studies, would that mean you will be living together, if it does, that will show how well you get along sometimes, when 2 people get together where they spend all their time together, it shows what one can't stand about the other. You have to think about your education first, get that and then worry about getting married, once you have the means to support each other it is a lot easier, money problems is what breaks up most couples. I vote wait till you 25 whether it be with this one or somene else. Ther is no hurry, seems everyone in a hurry to get tied down to one person, you are 18 enjoy life while you can, time will come too fast where you are faced with house payments, etc. So get that education and enjoy the years you have as a youth, there is plenty of time for marriage later.
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@naaadh (217)
• United States
2 Jun 08
Yap. i too belive your right. We get along together very well and we are staying together after going out of country. My plan is to get married around the age 25 after completing our Masters, and then together continue studying. Thanks for your comment. It meant alot.