Shhhhh - That's the sound of no one caring what you think

LOL That must have been before I met you darling - I could never leave you with no responses even if it was just to come blow a at you! lol I have felt as though nobody cares sometimes when it takes ages for any response to come in but luckily I haven't had anything with no responses at all that I can remember although I did have one that only had one response and that was from my adopted American Mom! lol It was about a bad day /night I had had and checking insurance policies http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1131035.aspx just so you can see how sad it looks! lol xxx

I think last year I made a lame attempt at a "regular feature"...s/o's race results. I thought maybe some race fans might be interested but they fell flat. He wasn't really good last year either so they weren't much for even me to get excited about though!

lol not just on here but in real life. I'll talk to my hubby for example and we'll come to an agreement on something and the next day it's like we never even had that discussion! Oh the insanity.

I have the experience. That is the reunion of our elementary school students , at the beginning we recalled the happy time we ever had toghter, but when I talked about the current life ,they were not so in it .I felt a little upset . But now I realized that I should have considered more when I had a topic.

There was one I started, I thought it would be a surefire hit. It was about stupid people or stupid happenings. Al Gore got the ball rolling on that one when he won the Nobel Peace Prize. Noone responded to that one and still haven't. It's the only discussion with no response that I have and it drives me nutty looking at it every day. Sigh....

I was begging for someone to help me with my sticky rice in the 3rd discussion I ever posted here. No one wanted to help me. No one cared about my plight. Surely with all the members here of asian descent someone would have been able to provide a little assistance but no....that discussion went unanswered for 3 months before finally someone commented. I gave BR just to get if out of my list of unresolved discussions. I love the title of this by the way. It looks like I'm rubbing off on you. ROFL

i guess so...i have posted discussions with no responses..and that i cant recall anymore unless i have to scroll it here..maybe i posted topics that were not appealing to the others..and cant relate to the subject

That's why I seldom start my own discussions, I carefully think about it before deciding to hit the "submit" button. I think I have one which I posted two months or so ago, I thought it was a good post but I guess it's also about the number of people interested on that topic that counts as well. I have many WEAK posts back then, that I also wish and hope that people don't have to respond to it anymore because I feel stupid whenever I see those discussions I made..

I have some interests that not many people are part of so there's a few discussions where there are no responses, or worse people have just responded to say they don't know who I'm talking about because they feel sorry for me. I don't think I have any discussions that didn't get a single response but I have ones that only got 2 or 3. It's hard to post discussions that get lots of responses every time, I started one about marriage that I thought would be popular but only got a few responses. You can never be sure what everyone will respond to.

Oh yes, of course. You don't have to ask, because you know it happens to so many people. It's kind of aggravating, but then again, I guess you just learn to accept the fact that this does happen to the best of us. LOL My worst discussion was probably one where I talked about really getting into your favorite shows. I think it was the way I worded it. It just came out a little funny, and never received any responses. Well, I hope one day someone reads the book, then comes to myLot to discuss it...and finds your discussion. Best wishes to you!

Yeah I have discussions too that has no response. I think I have two discussions that has no response. I do not know why nobody cares to posts their response on my discussion. Maybe it is not that interesting to them. That is why I am choosy in making discussions so that I am assured of a response from viewers.

My worst was the one that I posted about cats. It was supposed to be a joke, but some people didn't take it like that and it was deleted, but not before someone told me in no uncertain terms that it wasn't appropriate and they took great offense to it. Others thought it was hilarious, but it was deleted all the same.

Hi Pikefish, No I do not have many discussions at all. I do not start any, till now only three or four I have started. I prefer not to start, I am scared no one will answer mine. All of my discussions will be in the no responses discussions. I can understand how much bad it will feel. That's whgy I try to answer as many no responses discussions as I can , if I like it. I go through that many times and choose the discussions which I can participate.

Yes, this has happened to me. I started a discussion about Neil Diamond's new album 'Home Before Dark'. It is raising huge interest here in UK as h is touring and appearing on all the tv and radio chat shows. I have to admit I was disappointed that the response was so - blank! I also started a discussion about pople giving away a share in one million dollars. I can understand pople avoiding that as it sounds like yet another get rich quick scam - it was a poor choice of subject. But I did think the Neil Diamond topic might attract some attention. Tell you what, I'm gonna go and give yours a response if I can find it.

Hihi, If no one responded, the probability is high that the topic is too niche and no one has the knowledge to help. My worst discussions are those I started when I first joined myLot. I had no friends then and I started crapper discussions that I will cringe when I look at them now. Don't worry, be happy.

I did start something about life and it was a big dud. I only get reminded when I check my discussions and there was this deep, thoughtful discussion which I thought would tear at a person's soul and have him/her groping for answers from the depths of their psyche. Nada. Nothing. Zilch. No response.

I have a couple that have gotten only one or two responses. I don't start very many discussions though I have been trying more lately. For me, it seems like the ones that actually mean more to me are the ones that ignored.

hi pikefish you have a discussion nobody answered? wow' I have always loved your discussions. yes I had one too and I thought I had searched and found nothing like mine but after I posted it I found that someone else had copied the same todays saying probably from the same newspaper only six months earlier. they got five and I got sadly' zero,zilch. and at that time I was really new here. I felt bad but after I had become known a bit I got a lot of responses on most all my discussions. I never had another zilch one. several with five or six. also I did more checking before I posted a discussion too.

The book title rings no bells ,so it was a little hard to respond to that one piky my boy....but if you see a copy of Cherie Blairs auto going cheaply lol ..pick it up for me...my nose is killing me!!,...Re discussions ..well I post now and again,but im afraid im more of a response adder than anything..

Theres no one caring what you think and on the other hand theres no one ever listening to what you say!!!...do you actually heed the words that spill from Mrs Pikes mouth..or are they much the same as the ones that slip between my lips..they fall on deaf ears!!..I honestly used to think that Mr Ruby had a hearing problem..which if truth be told he does...but it comes and goes ..and my words land on deaf ears more often than not!!This morning he popped back from the allotment to get something..when I saw him later he said..Oh I popped home and you werent there...I had already said more then six times lol that I had to go out this morning ....omg cotton buds needed here please.