You hate the one most whom you loved the most
By moraho
@moraho (234)
Nepal
June 2, 2008 7:22am CST
Is this true that the intensity of love you have shown to someone turns to the worst wrath of hatred. Well, I do have seen people breaking up and tying up again and been telling each other LOVE U and HATE U often. But Can is be possible to hate the one to his worst if you have loved him/her the most at some time of your life that you always wanted to cherish?
What your say?
6 responses
@baleleng2008 (917)
• United States
13 Jun 08
I was inlove bfore moraho and I would say he's the man I wanted to be my partner for teh rest of my life ,but it didn't turn that way.EvEN our relationship never continue honestly I hate him before ,but then I realize that it's not good to keep hatred in your heart.So I forgive him and move on my life....
@moraho (234)
• Nepal
13 Jun 08
... yes you are right, we should not keep hatred in our heart ... it hurts us more than anyone else ... it is natural that things do not turn as how you wished and life should move on instead of keeping the feeling of bitterness and hatred for others ... thanx a lot dear for the response ... and yes forgiving is the one thing human can do to match GOD.
@baleleng2008 (917)
• United States
16 Jun 08
Yes hatred is really not good,but I have to say it takes me a yrs to forgive him and to forget it takes me forever,but I don't let my past control of what my life now.Im happy with my two kids and they are my inspiration.
How about you moraho?Who is your inspiration in your everyday life?Don't tell me you don't have...wink!I see you blushing...lol!
@rainwater (352)
• China
2 Jun 08
If you love one person,do you give the heart to hurt her?I believe the ture love is not hate.If the intensity of love you have shown to someone turns to the worst wrath of hatred,maybe only a reason:you love yourself best,you do not love her,you care about yourself,you are afraid of hurt from her,you real love is yourself,why don`t you understand?Why do you give a cause to love yourself magnificence? I am so sorry,maybe a little aflame. Best wishes.
@iftikharsumn (1471)
• Pakistan
2 Jun 08
no i have never experienced such.but thats true i have also seen many causes like that in my life
@armandojapitana (391)
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
True, as you hate her is a symptoms of deep feelings toward the person's, the deeper is as you love her but it's always hate first before love is better than love first then hate......
@mamuzo (225)
• South Africa
2 Jun 08
Well, I think there might be some truth to that statement . . . because when the person you love the most hurts you in a very gruesome way the pain is unbearable than when a stranger / just a friend hurts you. The pain causes a lot of bad feelings inside you to the extend of hatred. Haven't you ever heard of the saying, "There's a thin line between love and hate"?? This doesn't necessarily mean it's ok to feel this way because it's not. True love should be able to overlook and forgive in any circumstance!!
@ycpgoldberg (807)
• Malaysia
2 Jun 08
It's true in some case.
While you love someone very much,
but turn out that he/she is cheating you,
you might feel very hurt,
and hate very much too.
