Please help anyone with kids!!!

hi. Maybe after two years of being together, you are at least allowed to ask why. And whatever he says, you should accept it because you asked for it. Anyway, there are a lot of maybes that we can think of but are not really sure what the exact answer would be. Maybe, he wants to respect his ex wife and daughter, anyway, that is her day. She might have requested her dad not to bring you along because she would have to explain to friends so and so..So could assume many things and anything that comes to your mind might just hurt you. So, what better to do is, let it pass and don't get offended or worried. The day will come when you can spend every birthdays of your future step daughter when all is settled between them. But if you still wanna know why, go for it and ask..in a nice and calm way...