how gay is gay?

Singapore
June 2, 2008 11:07am CST
let's paint this picture seeing a pair of the same gender.. sitting under a tree, K I S S I N G.. or maybe.. seeing them holding hands?? which would you consider gay or it's none of the above? to me.. girls have more freedom to express their affection to each other.. but if it's kissing(be it french or simply a peck) i think that would be going a little too far) guys however, in my country, holding hands would already be a stigma.. labelling them as gay.. what is your opinion???
3 responses
raclie
@raclie (1732)
• Singapore
5 Jun 08
ewww... i just cannot stand gays... i dont care about gay rights or anything... because i feel that there are 2 genders for a reason... one gender will be for another gender... if gays are ment to be, there will be just one gender in the whole world... i feel that it is just adnormal for people of the same gender holding hands...unless you are sisters... but other than that i feel that it is just not right!!! kissing on the cheek will be ok... as long as you dont kiss in front of me... sorry to all the gays out there... but i just feel that way... and unless you can prove me wrong, i will contuniue to have this mindset...
cherylpan
@cherylpan (79)
• Singapore
5 Jun 08
apprecaite the response thanks:)
ella1bella
@ella1bella (839)
•
2 Jun 08
It doesnt really worry me too much .the gay scene,but maybe im not too much into the holding hands bit and kissing in public.But at the end of the day that has to be up to them really,I mean who are we to comment .I often kiss My mum and people could think that we were gay,I find like everything as long as it oesnt affect me too much,or upset me then all is really ok,we have to learn to live and let live a bit.
cherylpan
@cherylpan (79)
• Singapore
2 Jun 08
i do kiss my sisters and mum in public too.. but then.. people would look at you in a glance and see that you are related.. thanks for the respone.. apprecaite it :)
pheonixstar1982
@pheonixstar1982 (2307)
• United States
2 Jun 08
If it was two guys i would think there either gay or got the bad end of a bet. If it was two girls there either gay or really close. But either way its labeling and wrong. Why does it matter if someone is gay or not. I personally love gay people and would rather be around them then straight people because the gays that i have been around are less judgmental.
cherylpan
@cherylpan (79)
• Singapore
2 Jun 08
i totally agree that labeling is wrong.. but the world we live in does not think they way you do.. steotyping certain groups of people or making fun of people are just some examples of how the world can be curel as in to label.. i apprecaite you response... thanks:)