for a girl which life is best?living with parents or living with in laws

Believe me, a girl who has a husband/partner has the best life when they life on their own. Not with the parents, not with the inlaws, nada. Just together. When you life with your parents, you will always be their child and you will not grow up emotionnaly as you would when you would live on your own. When you life with your inlaws, most of the times you have problems with you mother in law, especially if you married her only son. She will find it difficult to let her son go and it will put a stress on your relationship. This is just my experience, ofcourse it's possible to live happily together with parents/inlaws, but I don't think that's the case in the majority.