How to be a GOOD wife?
@Srivastava_roli (269)
8 responses
@browneyed (2522)
• United Kingdom
3 Jun 08
How to be a good wife?
Having a good husband helps.
take care...
@lorilei39 (22)
• United States
3 Jun 08
How to be a good wife? Never let him win an argument and make him understand you will have use to the credit cards at ALL times. Oh and what time you prefer to eat dinner. :)
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
3 Jun 08
well, congratulations in advance.
I am not yet married and I don't know if these tips will help you to become a good wife.
I guess, you just have to take good care of your husband. do whatever you need to do for him and for the family that you both will establish. just give him the love, security, and comfort that he needs. and just be patient. being a wife isn't easy after all, and I believe that its a learning process. so just enjoy being a wife. and good luck to the both of you!
@wormzydaizy (202)
• Philippines
3 Jun 08
Well, I'm not married yet so I think I'll just share some tips on how to be a good partner/best friend to your husband.
firstly, I believe that you should learn to accept him for what he is, for what he has and for what he does not have and does not possess. Acceptance of the good and the bad side of the person is the first thing to be noted if you want to be a good partner. Secondly, I believe that you should learn to trust him. I guess in your case the trust should be deeper and wider, and i guess you should trust him for almost everything because you only got each other anyway. Thirdly, you must also learn to respect your partner. Respect his space, his time for his friends, his pondering time and his playful times. Lastly, of course, you should love him. A love that do not stifle the person but rather a love that makes the two of you grow and develop into a better and even the best person.
@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
3 Jun 08
Congratulations!
Maybe the best advice that I could give you is first put God in the center of your relationship. Because in that way no evil will come or succeed in making your marriage broke. Second, love your husband as the way you wanted to be love. Don't be afraid to show your emotions to him. If you are not feeling good then show it to him but always put a limit if what you feel is negative and make sure that before the day ends everything is patched up. Make a routine everynight to reminisce/think what has happen the whole day and pick up those that are good and forget those that are bad. LAstly be yourself don't pretend to become sweet if you are not. It will just make your relationship fall. Goodluck on your new chosen career!
@mrspace (60)
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3 Jun 08
My grandmother gave me wonderful advice a few years ago when I got engaged. She told me that there are a few things that you can do to live a better married life. She told me to write on a piece of paper, everything that I wanted in my husband. All the qualities that I wanted him to have. Then she took the piece of paper and handed me another. On the second sheet she told me to write down everything I wanted to be in a wife. Supporting, loving, understanding, calm, non-judging...and the list went on. When I finished, she took the "husband" piece of paper and ripped it in half, threw it in the trash. She told me: If you work on the "wife" paper... God will take care of the rest. And I think she's right. If you concentrate on being the best person you can be, the best wife you can be... Then you won't have any regrets later. Just have faith that your husband is doing the same. It's worked for me!
@dayong1113cn (311)
• China
3 Jun 08
In my country,if someone who can be called good wife,she must do three things.First,she must be honest to her husband;second,she must share the pressure of living with her husband;last,she must have good relationship with the parents of her husband.above all three are basic ,but the most basic one is that you must love him!
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
3 Jun 08
I think that the key to being a good wife is to listen, respect and love your husband. Feed him wholesome meals and let his friends come over. Be who you were as a girlfriend, just practice it more... I know a lot of people might not agree, but men do need to be nurtured. My Fiance and I are actually having a conversation about women and their roles opposed to men.. it's a bit different but it's coming into play in our conversation. I hope that you have a loving marriage