I read it somewhere
By kun2349
@kun2349 (23381)
Singapore
14 responses
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
3 Jun 08
I have heard this saying before. I must agree with it, because that is truly what it is. You walk into a relationship blind as you do not know the person or you may know him but you still do not know the outcome of what could happen.. yet you walk in, sit down and give them your all without a second thought because you trust them not to hurt you.
I'm actually talking to my fiance's friend about this with my fiance.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
5 Jun 08
Yes but the reward is knowing that somewhere out there there is someone for you. Someone who will mend your broken heart and never let you hurt because of love again.
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
19 Jul 08
hey kun!
where did you get that? because i just used it a few weeks ago as my shoutout/tag line/heading (whatever other websites call them, but it is called a shoutout in friendster) in my friendster profile. ^__^;; i really like that saying because it is so true. when you love someone, you give them your heart, you trust them to take care of it, but at the same time, since you're giving it away, you're also giving them the chance to do whatever they want to it and that includes hurt it. love is really like a double-edge sword. on one side, you can be happy, on the other side, you can get hurt too.
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
7 Sep 08
i agree. love is really like a double-edge sword.
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
20 Jul 08
LOL ^_^ I got it from a video, when i atttended a wedding dinner last month.. lol =D
Yeah, it's very truth too, as we really put all our trust in our partner, to the extend of not knowing how to protect ourself anymore.. And so, whatever they do, it's very important to us, and even the slightest mistake can do alot of damages to the heart ^_^
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@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
5 Jun 08
i have heard dis saying a lot of time..n i do belive in dis saying...its true....wen you love a person who give you everything to your partner...n trust is the most important factor in love....without dis word its hard to survive in a relation called love...
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
10 Jun 08
I totally agree. It does not only apply to love. It applies to all types of relationships. No human beings are infallible. All of us will make mistakes and hurt other people (either knowingly or unknowingly) at some point of our lives. Once you allow someone to get close to you, it's inevitable that one day that person will hurt you. When that happens, it really depends on how forgiving you are.
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
10 Jun 08
YUP ^_^ Very true indeed.. Be it frenz or partners, they will hurt u as long as they are humans.. Feelings do change and mood swings do come.. IF one happen to be at the wrong place at the wrong time, and that's it.. AFter which, it all boils down to how forgiving are u..
@sophialin (2677)
• China
4 Jun 08
i agree with it.love is kind of competition.who loves first and more is doomed to be the failure.
love gives the chance to hurt and being able to hurt another one just because you know clear that he/she loves you.
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@sophialin (2677)
• China
7 Jun 08
yes we can hurt someone because of love,but the same time we are hut still due to love.love is an interaction emotion.
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@steelkhan (177)
• Sharjah, United Arab Emirates
4 Jun 08
yes its true if you love someone with your heart and soul then you are giving them a chance to hurt you.
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@steelkhan (177)
• Sharjah, United Arab Emirates
10 Dec 13
@kun2349 sorry for this super late reply....if they cheat with u or leave u, then what will happen to u...so u r giving them a chance to hurt u..
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
3 Jun 08
But in the 1st place, we dunno and wun know who is gonna hurt us?? In a relationship, most ple will be harbouring the hopes of not being hurt by our partners, but in the end, the person we trusted most often is the one who hurt us most.. I think that's wat the person is trying to say..
@kat_princess (1470)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Well,that saying applies to everyone who's in a relationship like me.There are times my boyfriend and I hurt each other but we trust each other that we won't do things that can hurt either the two of us.
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@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
3 Jun 08
It's true! Some of us may even say to our partner "please don't let me be hurt" But deep in our hearts we are praying that the person we choose to love will not only cause us pain in the future. We all know that the reciprocate of love is hurt so that is a given fact that once our partner do something wrong we will be hurt and affected by it.
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
3 Jun 08
There's basically no way that a person wun be hurt.. It's only that hoe much hurt can a person take.. The more and deeper u love a person, the lesser the hurt u care able to take because they mean so much to u, and just a simple wrong action or words, can do serious hurt to the heart..
@chinnu3579 (661)
• India
5 Jun 08
Everything is possible in Love and War.Accept whatever way you get from your partner,then everything will be alright,All the best,don't get disgusted,donot feel like hurted,by the most leave and go for another.
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@xiaojing1226 (236)
• China
4 Jun 08
I haven't been hurt by my boyfriend,then i don't believe it.
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@Bentley16 (86)
• Brunei Darussalam
4 Jun 08
Never blame love and your partner for all the wrongs that were made,even if we got hurt real bad,lets just take it as an experience that some people only get..we are happier this way..
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@Bentley16 (86)
• Brunei Darussalam
3 Jun 08
The more experiences we get,the more loving and lovable we are..i believe that to acquire a true love that never hurts,an ordinary person must learn the hard way of love first..so love is about taking risk,take that chance cause you will never know when will your true love comes....
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