Girls Are : Rant about females.

@SomeCowgirl (32191)
United States
June 3, 2008 2:51am CST
First, let me just go ahead and put it out there for everybody that i'm a female. I'm venting because of what SOME females have done in the past to TWO of my fiance's friends. I just want to add that this is no way meant to start a fight and if one starts, don't expect me to egg you on. Sorry girls won't happen. Girls can be such B**CHES. I'm not going to lie to you, I hate seeing a man suffer because his gf has hurt his feelings. I hate seeing a woman "test" their man over and over again because they can't trust him or say that all men are like that. I can't stand a woman who cheats on a man and thinks it's okay because men do it all the time. Some girls say that guys lie? I hate to say it to ya ladies but GIRLS LIE TOO.. I'm going to stop myself before I start a fight, a riot. Let me put it to you this way. What do you think of women who destroy a man and his pride because they "feel" like it?
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@sid556 (30959)
• United States
6 Jun 08
I think it is despicable how both men and women treat each other. It is both. I don't understand it and it is just horrible. I am a woman too. I have been with men who don't trust because of all the times they have been used and lied to. It makes it hard to get close to them. I have been with men who have cheated and lied to me and abused me. Now, I have no desire to even be in such a close relationship. It's not even a choice. It's just not there anymore. I like being single and plan on staying that way. I date and I am faithful to whomever I date but it isn't really fair to that person because they want deeper and more and i just can no longer give it. Too bad these people didn't just target each other but they always seem to get some innocent and trusting person and damage them up for the next person.
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• United States
6 Jun 08
As in my last response I agree it is a shame but we are the ones who feel the pain and we are the ones that have to live with it. And as you say you have done so have I. I have never been unfaithful or dishonest with any girl I have ever dated I even went so far as to work multiple jobs at almost eighty hours a week to help one out when she hit a hard time and her thanks to me was for her to cheat on me and she did not even feel any remorse. Especially after her and others like her I just have not got it in me to dedicate myself wholly to someone in that manner maybe if I found someone but it would take a long time for me to truly open up to them. In essence I would like to say that I agree with what you just expressed and your method you just cant trust anybody to date any more. Just think people like us who really are good people just will not get the chance and we will more than likely to never be able to share the "joy" of dating ever again. Doomed to forever remain single but you know loneliness is fine by me I am used to being by myself in solitude I just hate that it occurred to you and hope only the best for you, sincerely, well, me.
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@sid556 (30959)
• United States
6 Jun 08
Hi dash, I actually don't get lonely anymore and have found many ways to fill up my time with hobbies and good friends. I, like you, have grown to enjoy the solitude as well. If the right person came along, there may possibly be a chance of developing a deeper relationship but like you said, it would take such a long time and I really don't see that happening. I think a part of me would always hold back somewhat. On the positive side of all this, I have learned that when I am seeing someone that I enjoy time with that I enjoy and appreciate it for as long as it lasts and is good. I don't take for granted any of the good times because I know all too well that tomorrow it could all blow up in my face. And also...I no longer get angry or bitter or overly hurt when things end because, I just don't expect happily ever after to begin with. So there you have it...it really isn't all so bad.
@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
girls are no different than guys. if guys lie, girls lie. if a girl can be trustworthy, so can a guy. if you would hate this girls, you should also hate guys doing such things. I am a guy. It's in a matter of perspective, from where you are looking at it, you are with the party that is betrayed and destroyed so obviously you will animosity for these b**ches. If you are on the other side of the fence, and for example your man would hurt you (i know he wouldn't), you would be angry with all men for being such kind of men. It is in the way the society treats men and women. For the society, women must be caring, submissive, soft. this shapes their femininity. While on the other hand men are seen to be strong, provider and dominant. So we can say it is more acceptable for men to lie and have relationship with third parties. We will say it's in their nature, they are born like that, they are men. While when a women do so, it would bring more outrage from the society. it's unacceptable. In my personal opinion, girls are more secretive, it's in their nature. and they can hurt a man more than a man can hurt a woman. Guys should be cautious of such women.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
6 Jun 08
I understand what you are saying when you say that if I was on the other side of the situation, I would feel hatred towards men. I understand that but I don't wholeheartedly believe that. I've always been one to favor men more then ladies, and believe and trust in their authority. I also old fashioned and believe that a woman should submit to men, I suppose that goes hand in hand with my previous statement. It's really just a confusing subject that will have and does have many opinions that are either I will agree to or disagree. I think that in many ways society is still wanting men to be the dominant gender, although most of society won't allow it.
@JLS_12 (41)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Before I fell for a girl that I was so in loved. She made me feel like that. I don't blame them. They are gifted. All I do is try to remember the pain I've gone through and use it as a source of inspiration. One day they I promise they will realize that they shouldn't have done that to me. All I can say to them is Go on girl like neyo sang.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
6 Jun 08
I think that it's sad that girls will hurt guys for no apparent reason. If a girl has a reason, then that's different. I'm sorry that you got hurt and I'm glad that it seems as if it's not causing you to stop looking for love.
@raclie (1732)
• Singapore
6 Jun 08
well... some girls are insecure i guess.. they want to test their boyfriends to find if they are really the right one of them or not. some females will even hire hot PIs and see if the man will fall into the trap of hitting on her. well... i feel that that is just so stupid... if you are that insecure, you most likely know that you are not good enough for him. i think for your friend, you should tell him how you feel about him being played by his girlfriend and let life take its course.. anyway... girls DO lie!!! how said they dont? they lie about many things in fact... but it does not mean that they are bad, like i said.. they are just insecure...
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
6 Jun 08
Most girls are insecure but there are still some that I am sure fall behind and shield themselves by "insecurity" when in reality they are just taking their own feelings out on some poor innocent guy because four bf's ago, she got cheated and dumped. I know that sound's pretty bad, but it's just the way I feel. I know not all girls are insecure, not all girls are just B**ches but those who are seem to verrule those that are not.