will u accept ur ex if he begs u for another chance???

i did give my ex a second chance and u know i think tht is one the best things i did in my life we r married for 8 years now and have a three year old son..if he was good and not abusive then i think u can give a second chance..only thing i wud not rvive an abusive relationship anything else does deserve a second chance..good luck..

Why not..everyone deserves a second chance..i mean what's there to be lost actually..the worst part only that you will be hurt once again..but what if he's really regretting for what he had done?,then there should be heaven on this earth for you..

I have given most of my exes a second chance actually. There have been very few times that I have regretted the decision to do it, even when it ultimately didn't work out. As someone else mentioned though, if he was abusive, if he ever hit you in particular, or ever did anything to harm your children, if you have anything, I wouldn't give him a second chance no matter what he said, ever. If, however, that's not the case, I'd let him have another go in the relationship. Why not? What have you got to lose, as long as he was never abusive? The worst that can usually happen, in that case, is he leaves again. In which case, you're no worse off then you are right now really. On the other hand, it's possible that everything will work out for the best, and he'll be more receptive to your needs, and more able to make a commitment this time around, and you'll be happy. I'd say it's worth the risk of him deciding he doesn't love you any more, or leaving, if the potential outcome is happiness with the person you love.