Friends or relatives ?
By senjacob
@senjacob (124)
June 3, 2008 9:14am CST
I have many friends and also have some relatives..
sometimes i am thinking that and comparing who is the best to have the great touch with me?? friends are ready to do anything for me,but relatives sometimes they are behaved as selfish.. so i have a doubt in general who is the best
2 responses
@positiveminded1977 (7072)
• India
3 Jun 08
It depends, Sen. Some people have very good friends, but rotten relatives. Some others have good relatives, but rotten friends. There is no hard and fast rule. Some people have neither friends nor relatives. And some lucky ones have good friends as well as good relatives.
Cheers and happy mylotting
@chennai_b02 (1735)
• India
3 Jun 08
This is a very difficult and a tipical question. no one can able to tell that who is best..
Even though if any one said that the "Relations are better than friends", they are really affected by their friends, or they are benefited by the relations really.. it may be their personnal opinion..
Vise versa, if any one said the the "Friends are the best" this is also as i said they have been ignored by their relations for some reasons.. You cannot take this also for final decision..
This is purely a situation and the persons concerned, it will get change to person to person.. according to the situations.
And also I would like to make one more note at this point of time, in case if their is any misunderstanding between the relatives there is a more possibilities are there that they can able to understand each other than the misunderstanding between the friends..
If you treat your friends as your relatives and also you treat your relations as your friends, then the relationship between both will get alright and together with you till your lifetime.. this has been proved by most of the people..
All the very best..
@senjacob (124)
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4 Jun 08
Hi chennai_b02,
Thanks for your answer.
I am clearly understood your answer.
in my case,both friends and relatives,good and bad people are here..i stay with my friends and relatives..
They both are not mismatch,so it was affect me that whom to support.
bu tnow i conclude and aoing to take a good decision...