when to get married?
By redkey65
@redkey65 (221)
China
June 3, 2008 10:47am CST
it seems that people around me all will get married sooner or later after graduation. there is few who will stay single over 35. people nearly 30 will be worried about their marriage. so when do you prefer to get married? have you ever think of being single all life long? to tell the truth, i often have that strange idea.
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6 responses
@gloreymay (882)
• Philippines
4 Jun 08
I think of getting married after being financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually ready! Financially because I'm thinking of my family's future. I want to give everything that my kids wants as long as I can. Emotionally If I really love the person and I'm willing to give my all for him then that is stable. Physically at the right age and being ready of becoming a mother and wife. And last spiritually if it is God's will for me. That's my basis for getting married.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
4 Jun 08
You must work hard for it, emotionally. To build the relationship and step into the marriage life together. That depends on how you convince yourself and your partner. It's a common feeling, everyone who gets married later will have such a feeling.
Age is not measuring for someone must get married or not. Don't push too hard with the age, because the consequences in which are; you get married harshly -or you scare your partner away.
@bubblz (15)
• United States
3 Jun 08
i always think.... should i get married rite away.... should i wait.... but i know that i should go to college 1st and then worry about getting married because..... i want children but i dont want 2 b in skool and b having a baby.... but i guess well c wut happens
@bubblz (15)
• United States
3 Jun 08
im 1 of those paople that want 2 marry rite after high skool.... but c da only reason is b-cuz i found the 1 guy that makes me feel as if i was in heaven.... he makes time 4 me..... he worries soo much about me....
i luv him.... we luv each otha' and we want 2 get married A.S.A.P. were only waiting 4 me 2 get out of skool and were out of this town
@summerrain (355)
• China
4 Jun 08
I think you must have not encountered your Mr.Right.Don't worry,try to communicate with more people,and make friends with people and be self-confident.Let it be.I wish you a good luck!