Hi fellas..Do you think guys should have more say , when it comes to..

Malaysia
June 3, 2008 8:47pm CST
Abortion? Firstly i wanna say . I don't support it or believe it's right but it does happen and expericially in the western world it's a common thing. But...the consensus is nowdays ..Men don't really have a say when it comes to abortion.( Mainly speaking from a Western point of view I know in some countries the man has more influence over the decision) The woman/Girl always gets the last word when it comes down to it and if she so chooses can pretty much make the decision by herself and even go ahead and have an abortion without even telling the guy..it seems to go something like " It's her body and she's the one whos going to carry it for nine months" so she gets to make the final decision... What do you think? How if you the guy , or you the woman who wanna to abort...share ur experience and idea pls...
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• United States
4 Jun 08
I think it is unfair that the father doesn't have any say at all - even if they're married. I don't believe in abortion except in very specific circumstances so perhaps that influences my feelings. I just believe that if the man wants the baby he should have the chance to do so.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
4 Jun 08
I am in two minds about this sort of thing, I can see how both would feel then I put myself in the womans position as I am a woman and I feel it is the woman who has to go through it all, not the man, and I know I would hate to be forced to do something I didn't want to do, so I am more inclined to say it is the woman who has to carry the baby for nine months, it is the woman who has to go through the pain, it is the woman that in some circumstances can lose their life so I say no it should be up to the woman...