How do I handle my introvert child?

Hmm. I would definately keep the lines of communication open. If your child was once social and outgoing - it seems like something must have happened to make him not feel comfortable socializing any longer. Have you spoken with him about everything? I would definately do so. If my 4 year old suddenly was like that, I would be very concerned - this doesn't seem like one of those "phase" type things.

I wouldn't worry too much yet children do go through phases.I would watch and see if other behaviors change as well,like is he more angry then he used to be,or more tearful.His father being gone may have triggered this,how does a 4 year old know how to interpret his father being gone,you never know what he is thinking about it and what he might be deciding for himself is why his father is gone.All he really knows is he misses him and wants him home.I would just give him more attention for now and perhaps set up some play dates for him to play with children his own age. Good luck I hope everything works out for you and him. Jas

Have there been any significant changes in your child's life? If your child didn't act this way before, then I would think that maybe something has caused his behavior to change. It doesn't matter how most 4-year-olds behave. It matters that your son's behavior has changed from his previous behavior. I would suggest talking to him. If that doesn't work, I would think about taking him to a child psychologist.

dont worry bcoz for all u know this maybe a passing phase..i also have athree year old..u try calling some of ur friends kids home for playing or spending the day with him maybe slowly he will again start enjoying himself in their company, u can also enroll him in some activity classes where he can interact with other children...it is not at anything to worry abt but curtail it before it comes in his routine...take care..give my love to ur son..