Have you ever cheated or thinking about it?

@jessieBee (1046)
Trinidad And Tobago
June 4, 2008 1:50pm CST
Have you ever cheated on a partner and felt guilty after doing so? Or did it not bother your conscience(did it play on your mind)? Did you tell them what you did? if yes/no why? Are you thinking about cheating on them any time soon? What was your reason for cheating on your partner in the first place.
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@nupats (3564)
• India
10 Jun 08
when i was 18 i met this guy and we fell in love after 4 years of seing each other we got married and now we have been together for 8 years..i never ever cheated on him but all these years if i see a good looking guy i do smile and also tell him look he is so hot and cute...he just laughs it off..i admire beauty but frm far dont wanna mess..i love my husband too much..in fcat if i see a very pretty girl i always tell him look there and he goes red...we both are opposite of each other i am the bubbly and chirpy kinds and he is the sober intelligent mature and shy kinds..i can never dream of cheating him..
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@jessieBee (1046)
• Trinidad And Tobago
10 Jun 08
Neither can i dream of cheating on my bf. You guys sound a lot like us. I show him pretty girls and ask him question like "do you think she is good looking"? "Does that outfit look good on her"? He's find with it.
@jessieBee (1046)
• Trinidad And Tobago
12 Jun 08
Good to know come to think of it , it does give a bit of spice to it.
@nupats (3564)
• India
11 Jun 08
These small things add spice to the life..i m a girl so naturally a good looking guy will attract some attention and same applies to him regarding girls..so these r ok..i mean we r fine with this harmless teasings..
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
4 Jun 08
Once when I was 19 I cheated on my then boyfriend with his best friend. I was young and stupid and very mad at my boyfriend at the time. I told him about it a few days later. We broke up about a month later.
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@jessieBee (1046)
• Trinidad And Tobago
4 Jun 08
OMG!! his best friend! That must have really bothered you. But you were 19 still young,fresh. Can you remember his reaction? What did he tell you and how did you tell him?
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
4 Jun 08
I flat out told him. I expected him to break up with me over it, but he did not. He actually was not very mad at all. We broke up about a month later over something else. I don't even remember what now. It was 11 years ago.
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@jessieBee (1046)
• Trinidad And Tobago
4 Jun 08
O.K. Thanks a lot lily for your honesty.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
5 Jun 08
Hi dear i dont cheat or intend to cheat my partner, all i do some chatting on net and she knew about it
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@jessieBee (1046)
• Trinidad And Tobago
5 Jun 08
keep up the good work cupid. And make sure it doesn't happen in the feature.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
6 Jun 08
Hi dear i will try to do so but u know it took one week moment to do all this
@roi452 (232)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
There was a point that the idea on cheating on my partner crossed my mind. There's just so many temptations and they just kept coming. It didn't materialize though, i thought about it over and over and realized that it it's worth doing. I value our relationship and wouldn't sacrifice it for just some one night stand.
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@jessieBee (1046)
• Trinidad And Tobago
5 Jun 08
Hi roi, I am so happy to know that you didn't go through with it. You two may not have been together still if you had cheated. Yes there are temptations but you must continue to ignore them.
• Philippines
8 Jun 08
When I was single some of the guys came to my life cheated on me. The feeling sucks but I was never afraid of loving or entering another relationship after that. I once thought of cheating just to experience how it feels and what do I get with it. But never did it because maybe I'm not really a cheater. My honesty paid off. I learned how to differentiate sincere people from cheaters. And that's how I chose my husband now. They say, It's much better to feel pain and hardships at the beginning, than to suffer forever at the end.
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@jessieBee (1046)
• Trinidad And Tobago
10 Jun 08
Yes it is better. I'm happy for you. In the beginning you met a lot of cheaters but in the end you found the one. Cheating just for the experience doesn't make much sense to me. I'm glad you never did it because you would have just been like the rest of them. Your ex's...
@wild_ran (30)
• India
8 Jun 08
I dont know what to call it cheating or not. as i am in relationship with this woman from a long time before i got married. Still i love her and we enjoy our self togather. Well my wife became a good friend of her too but she dont have a doubt.By the way i never neglect my wife for her. We are mature people and both married and so understand each others situations.
@jessieBee (1046)
• Trinidad And Tobago
10 Jun 08
Umm... that's cheating no matter how good you treat your wife.
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
4 Jun 08
i cheated on my high school boyfriend, but only after he cheated on me. i didn't set out to cheat on him, but after he cheated on me it drove a wedge between us and his best friend and another guy moved in. i felt bad about it after i did it and told him about it. we stayed together for awhile after that.
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@jessieBee (1046)
• Trinidad And Tobago
4 Jun 08
well i cheated on my ex bf and told him and also ended it with him. I fell in love with someone else. And I'm still with that person right now. But i never told him i had a bf when we meet. I'm still not telling I'll have too much explaining to do.